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Шокуюча правда про спадщину: квартира залишилась не дружині, а синові.
Мій чоловік, коли його батьки розлучалися, мав п’ять років. Ми завжди вірили, що тесть залишив квартиру дружині, але тепер стали відомі деталі — батько залишив житло не їй, а сину. А свекруха мовчала усі ці роки. Вона, по суті, жила у чужій квартирі стільки років. А Петро не хоче псувати стосунки з матір’ю, зітхає і каже: “Вона мене виховала, я не можу”.
Моя свекруха ніколи не розповідала про свого колишнього партнера. Я завжди цікавилася, але отримувала коротку відповідь: “Розійшлися”. І все. Це було понад двадцять років тому.
Увесь цей час ми були переконані, що тесть залишив квартиру їй, та ось тепер з’ясувалося, що це житло належить її сину Петру. Столько часу його матір приховувала це.
Мій чоловік під час розлучення батьків був дитиною, мав, можливо, п’ять чи шість років, але пам’ятає, що батьки не ладили. В певний момент батько зник з життя сина назавжди. Свекруха завжди підкреслювала, що виховувала дитину самотужки, без жодної допомоги. Працювала на дві роботи, роками ходила в одязі без змін, все заради дитини. Батько не платив аліментів, а Марія вважала, що просити гроші — це нижче її гідності.
Єдине, що, за її словами, було добре, — те, що чоловік залишив квартиру їй, як вважав Петро всі ці роки. Він не пам’ятає батька, але факт залишається фактом: коли той ще жив з ними, проводив з сином багато часу.
Власне, те, що батька не було вдома часто, нічого не змінило. Петро навчався, вступив до університету. Тоді багато пар були розлучені, складний період. В класі Петра лише кілька осіб жили з обома батьками.
Хлопчик ріс без батька, без вітчима. Марія не шукала нових стосунків, її пріоритетом було достойне виховання сина, вона багато працювала і не мала часу на інші відносини.
Петро пішов до університету і переїхав від матері. Вона залишилася сама в двокімнатній квартирі. Чотири роки тому ми одружилися і взяли кредит на житло.
На жаль, ми не могли сплачувати щомісячні внески, переїхали до моїх батьків. Там нам ніхто не робить шкоди, живемо добре, але жити з батьками не те, чого ми сподівалися. На жаль, іншого виходу не маємо. Петро змінив роботу, а я поки що шукаю безуспішно.
До недавнього часу ми нічого не знали, але нещодавно чоловік вирішував дещо в Податковій службі та дізнався, що він є власником двокімнатної квартири, в якій виріс.
Свекруха свідомо не сказала сину про це, вважаючи, що «це нічого не змінює».
На мою думку, це дуже багато змінює, адже ми могли б мати де жити. Свекруха може переїхати в село, але вона не хоче залишати місто заради якогось сільського будинку. Їй добре там, де вона жила. Вона взагалі не розуміє, чому ми з Петром так обурені цією ситуацією. Петро не хоче псувати стосунки з матір’ю, поважає її і любить за те, скільки вона для нього пожертвувала.
Кажуть, у моїх батьків тісно, але ти можеш мати свою квартиру, тільки хочеш поступитися матері, чи не так?
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