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They Decided Only They Should Spoil Their Children – And That’s a Problem
Claire had decided that only we were responsible for spoiling her children. My husbands sister had made up her mindwe were the ones obligated to pamper her kids, and no one else.
I married Edward nearly eight years ago. A good man, kind-hearted, always ready to help. But there was one problemhis sister. Marina. A woman with limitless imagination and an astonishing ability to twist every innocent remark into a veiled request for something expensive.
She never spoke directly. Her words always dripped with manufactured innocence:
*”The kids have been dreaming of that new animated film, but tickets are so pricey these days”* shed sigh, her voice laced with faux melancholy. And Edward, ever the doting uncle, would rush to buy tickets, take them to the cinema, and load them up with popcorn and sweets.
*”Lovely weather today,”* shed muse, *”but youre just stuck indoors. Why not take them to the funfair?”* And guess who ended up footing the bill? Us, of course.
I dont do subtlety. Never have. I prefer honesty. If you need somethingask. Say it outright. Dont dance around it pretending you dont want anything.
But Edward always bit. He adored his nephews and niece to madness. Yet the way he spoiled them crossed every line. Bikes, gadgets, days outit became routine. Marina would barely hint, and my husband would jump.
Recently, it was little Olivers birthdayMarinas son. Wed already bought him a top-of-the-range bicycle, costing us a small fortune. I thought it was more than enough. But to Marina, a *bicycle* was pocket change. In her eyes, the child *had* to go to Europe. And not alonewith her, naturally. A little boy couldnt possibly travel by himself!
In Marinas world, it sounded like this:
*”Olivers been dreaming of Paris. His little face lights up whenever he talks about it”*
This time, Edward brought him a cake and a monogrammed cushion instead. I was at work that day, so my husband went alone. And as youd expect, it was a slap in the face for his sister.
But Marina didnt give up. Her demands grew year after year. Edward, somehow, never minded. We didnt have children, so he poured all his fatherly love into his niece and nephews. Maybe he needed somewhere to put it.
Thenthe news wed waited for. I was pregnant. When I told Edward, he cried with joy, kissed my belly, couldnt believe it. Hed dreamt of this for years. But then Marina arrived.
And againwith a demand. This time, a spring holiday to Prague. With the kids, naturally. For the first time, my husband refused. He said everything now was for *our* family. His sister exploded.
The next day, she called me. Screamed. Accused.
*”How dare you?! Youve done this on purposeto steal the only man who ever cared for my children!”*
I hung up without a word.
Thena new act. The kids waited for Edward outside his office. They handed him handmade cards.
*”Uncle, please dont leave us”*
*”Why do you need your own baby when you already have us?”*
Someone had clearly fed them those lines. And that *someone* was predictable.
Edward came home, sank onto the sofa, stared at those cards and something inside him broke.
*”Ive been a fool,”* he muttered. *”How many years have I let this go on? The boilers broken, no money for coats, Dad lefthelp us, Uncle. Shes always used them to manipulate me. And I fell for it. Like an idiot.”*
Then, suddenly, he pulled out a notebook. Started jotting down every memorybikes, phones, school trips, holidays, jackets, theatre tickets. The total? A staggering sum.
And thenthe finale. A finale worthy of Marina.
She marched into our home, stood in the hallway like she owned it, and said:
*”Since youre having your own child now, how about one last favour? Give us the car. Not for meIm not greedy. Just so I can take the kids”*
Edward handed her the notebook without a word.
*”Thats the total. For everything youve taken. Pay it back. Youve got six months. After thatcourt.”*
She slammed the door so hard the coat rack toppled over.
Then came the flood of messages. Marinas friends bombarded me on social media. *How could you destroy the sacred bond between uncle and nieces?* *Now the kids are abandoned, starving, their mother helpless!*
But I didnt flinch.
Marina owns two flats. One from her ex-husband, the other from Edwardwho gave up his inheritance for her. She gets child support; shes not poor. She just grew used to handouts. And nowtheyve stopped.
Were having a baby. And now, my husband has a real family. No manipulation, no drama, no theatrics. And you know what? I think this is just the beginning
