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**The Best of Intentions**

*”Yes, I know youre not obliged! But hes your own flesh and blood! Would you really leave the boy without warm clothes in winter? Alex, is this how I raised you?”* His mothers voice crackled through the phone, sharp with accusation.

Alex had learned his lesson after a few explosive family rows. Now, whenever his mum called, he put her on speakerphone so he and Emily could face Lydia together. Otherwise, shed tear them apart one by one.

*”Lydia, were not refusing to help,”* Emily countered evenly. *”But if youre struggling with Jamie, let us take him. Sophies fine with itweve spoken.”*

Silence stretched for a beat. Alex could almost hear the calculations clicking behind his mothers pursed lipsweighing whether to shed the burden or keep her grip on control. Control won.

*”Youve no idea what youre asking for!”* Lydia scoffed. *”Youve never had a child, never even had a pet! You both work all daywholl look after him? Or do you think kids raise themselves like weeds? A child needs care, attention, love!”*

*”I understand that,”* Emily said calmly. *”But if it comes to it, wed manage. Id leave my job. Call it maternity leave in Sophies place.”*

*”Oh, and live on what, exactly? Your fortune?”*

*”Youve always said my salarys pennies. Wed survive without them.”*

Lydia went quiet. Alex exhaled, weary. Emily was still new to the familys chaos; hed been drowning in it for years.

*”Fine. Ultimatums now,”* Lydia finally spat. *”Go on, then. Youre young, foolishyou dont know what youre getting into. Im trying to help, to carry the load, and this is my thanks. But rememberwhile you play at independence, that child is freezing because of you.”*

The line went dead. Emily sat beside Alex, pulling him close, and remembered how it had all begun.

At first, Lydia had seemed warm, if strong-willed. Shed welcomed Emily with open arms long before the wedding, her table groaning under homemade dishes. Every visit ended with bags of groceries pressed into their hands.

She was a constant presencedaily calls, checking if Alex was treating her right, inviting her over. Once, shed even pulled strings to get Emilys mum into a private hospital suite. Emily had been grateful.

But shed noticed the shift. A missed call or a hurried goodbye, and Lydia transformed. Weeks of cold silence followed, punctuated by clipped tones and unspoken demands for apology.

*”Busy, are we? Too important for me now?”*

Emily would laugh it off, but the *care* felt suffocating.

Lydia had a daughter, tooSophie. Sixteen then, skittish as a stray, always vanishing into her room. Emily chalked it up to teenage moodiness.

*”Whats Sophie into?”* shed asked once before Christmas. *”Im stumped on gifts.”*

*”Nothing,”* Lydia snapped. *”Glued to her phone, moping. Useless.”*

That was when Emily knewsomething was wrong. Her own mother would never speak of her that way.

Later, the truth sharpened. Lydia smiled at Emily, then shrieked at Sophie for a smudged glass. *Wrong friends, wrong walk, wrong music.* And that was just what Emily saw.

No wonder Sophie married at eighteen. Not for lovefor escape.

*”Fool girl!”* Lydia had raged. *”Tied herself to that runt. Thinks hes her ticket out? Hell leave her within the month!”*

He lasted a year and a half. Long enough for Sophie to have a baby.

They werent close, but one day Sophie cracked. Asked for advice, then sobbed it all outher husbands nights out, lies, the way his hand had once lifted in warning.

*”Leave him,”* Emily urged.

*”And go where? Back to Mum? Id rather take my chances here.”*

That said everything.

When the divorce came, Sophie returned to Lydiaand the storm began. *Useless, uneducated, doomed to poverty.* But at least Lydia watched Jamie while Sophie worked.

Until Sophie snapped. Packed a bag and left.

*”Id take Jamie, but where would we go?”* she confessed later. *”Im crashing at a friends. I need to breathe. See a therapist. Because sometimes Mum pushed me so far I nearly”* She swallowed. *”Jamie doesnt deserve that. I need time.”*

With Sophie gone, Lydia turned the screws on Alex and Emily. *No money, failing health, that wretched girls burden.*

Emily watched, certain Jamie wasnt safe there. Sophie still bore the scars of Lydias *love*. Alex rarely spoke of it, but he folded too easily.

Yet it was Alex who suggested taking Jamiehe just couldnt say it to Lydia. Emily knew they could make it work.

*”Sophie, do you want Jamie to go through what you did?”* she pressed. *”Bring him to us. Well care for him until youre ready.”*

Sophie hesitated. *”And how do I wrench him away?”*

*”Social services. There must be a way.”*

*”Maybe.”* A pause. *”But youre right. I wont let her ruin him too.”*

Two weeks later, Sophie “came home.” Played penitent. Then took Jamie “for a walk”straight to Emilys.

The fallout was volcanic. Lydia howled theft, mobilized relatives, even called the police. But the law shrugged. Sophie landed in hospital, nerves shattered. Still, theyd won.

Emily quit her job to care for Jamie. No regrets. Alex earned well; theyd already talked about kids. If Sophie reclaimed him, good. If notwell, theyd gained a son.

Five years on, Sophie worked as a call agent, sharing a flat with a friend, savoring the quiet. No more shouting. No more judgement.

*”Mum Emily, look! Me and George built a tower!”* Jamie beamed, gesturing at wobbling blocks.

He lived with Sophie now but spent weekends with them, convinced he had two mums, adoring his little cousin. Emily bought toys in pairsshe couldnt bear to leave Jamie out.

Lydia? They didnt speak. The letterspages of venomstopped. Rumor had it her money and hangers-on had dried up. Sometimes Emily pitied her.

But watching Jamie and George laugh, she knew: Thered been no other way. Lydia had demanded obedience, mistaking family for a battlefield and herself for its general.

Now the “deserters” built their peaceand left the war behind.

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