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While There’s Life, It’s Never Too Late: A Heartfelt Story of Family, New Beginnings, and Finding Happiness at Any Age
As long as you’re still breathing, it’s never too late. A Story
Well then, Mum, as we agreed, Ill pick you up tomorrow and take you. Im quite sure youll love it there, Ben fussed about, pulling on his coat and shutting the front door behind him.
Anne Grant sank wearily onto the settee. Shed finally agreed to go, after Ben had spent what felt like ages persuading her. Her neighbours were all aflutter:
That Ben of yours, Anne. Right old softy, isnt he? Sending you off for a little pampering, just like last year.
Still, Anne was plagued by doubts. Oh well, she supposed, all would become clear tomorrow.
Ben arrived bright and early the next morning, whisked off her suitcases, plopped her in the car, and off they went.
Some people have all the luck, the neighbours muttered from the bench outside, Her lad finds her a housekeeper, whisks her away on holiday. Meanwhile, we just get on with life the old-fashioned way.
The retirement home was just outside of town.
Mum, this place is practically five stars! Ben beamed at her, looking hopeful.
When they stepped onto the lawn, where the benches were lined with the silver-haired brigade, Anne realised her suspicions had rather a leg to stand on.
Not that she let it showshe was always the type to keep a stiff upper lip.
She glanced at Ben, who looked away a little too quickly. He knew shed cottoned on.
Mum, theyve got doctors, fun activities, and loads of company. Just try it for three weeks, and if Ben faltered, barely meeting her eyes. All Anne said was,
Off you go, Ben. And dont call me Mumsy. Its Mum. Like always, alright?
He nodded, visibly relieved, kissed her cheek, and left.
Anne was given a choice: her own room, or sharing with someone. She chose a roommatebetter than being left alone with her own thoughts.
Well hello, darling, boomed an elegant lady arranged on the sofa. At last, some company! Im Marion Foxworth.
They exchanged pleasantries.
The suite really was up to scratcha lounge, two bedrooms, their own loo and shower. Ben had spared no expense. Marion, it turned out, was a lively, well-off, ninety-one-year-old:
My dear, Ive done with all the housework and the aches and pains. I let out my lovely place in Kensington, and live the high life hereno cleaning, just crafts and dances, and someone to keep an eye on me. Flats gone to my nephew, and in the off-season he carts me off to the seaside. And you, my petsurely youre a bit young for all this?
Anne gave a wry smile, but the urge to talk was too strong.
Didnt exactly choose this. Ben and his wife have their own place nowwe didnt really hit it off.
My flats big too, but as soon as theyd saved up, they bought their own. Maybe just as wellI didnt always see eye to eye with Nadine, my daughter-in-law. For a while, I was fine on my own Anne trailed off. But then the old health let me down.
Marion, freeing her hair from curlers, nodded knowingly. Well, todays dance night, you coming?
No, Ill pass. Need a quiet one, Anne said, and retreated to her room for a lie down.
Everything was as it should be. Her granddaughter, Alice, was away in Manchester at uni, starting to make her own life. Really, Anne only had herself to blame.
She and Nadine had clashed. Anne had always tried to run the show, insisted on having things her way. Poor old Ben had been stuck in the middleAnne had wanted him to choose his mother over his wife.
Ridiculous.
When they did move out, at first it was rather nice. Relations even improvedBen, Nadine, and Alice would pop round often enough. But soon, nothing was quite right anymore.
Again, only herself to blame.
She began to feel forgotten. She started feigning illnesses, acting feeble, hoping it would mean more visits. But Ben saw it differently. Perhaps he worried the usual rows might start up again. Or maybe he was just snowed under at work.
Really, Anne only thought about herself.
Only got herself to blame.
So Ben found her a companionthen another one. Anne didnt like any of them. She wanted her familys attention, but all she got was this.
Alice, her sweet granddaughter, rang regularly from Manchester:
Grandma, Ill be back soonits all fine here. Hows you?
Oh, just grand, my love.
Dont miss me too much, I really will be back soon!
Only herself at fault.
She told Ben she was getting muddled with her medicines, forgetful. Not true.
Maybe she hoped hed ask her to move in.
But Ben must have been frightened she was slipping. Both he and Nadine workwho would look after her? So here she was, in this five-star care home.
Anne glanced in the mirror.
Pushing eighty, yesbut what of it? The mind was sharp and she still had a bit of pep.
Again, her own doing. Maybe, in fact, this was for the best.
She lay down and drifted to sleep.
The three weeks felt endless.
Ben came every Friday, bearing a bag of treats, though honestly, there was nothing she lacked here.
All would be perfect if only it really was just a pampered holiday. But the hint that this could be *forever*well, that gnawed at her.
Well, you know, your mother is in excellent health, Ben. Bit nervy, but arent we all? reported the staff on Bens latest visit.
And Anne saw, with surprise, that he lookedrelieved. Delighted, even. Shed imagined everyone was just waiting for her to shuffle off this mortal coil.
And then, suddenlyAlice burst in:
Gran! Dad said you were away on holidayodd sort of place! Guess what? Ive finished uni, Ive got my degree! Will you be home soon? Im back now, the place is so lonely without you. Can I stay with you?
Annes heart nearly stoppedAlice was so genuine.
Dads coming tomorrow; pack your things, were taking you home!
Anne just nodded, speechlesson the verge of tears.
Marion was removing her curlers, ready for the evening festivities.
My dear, youre not made for this lark. Time to go home, she said, with barely disguised envy as she tidied her hair. Me, Im a proper grand old dame, but youre a homebird. Marion left her room with head held high.
Anne packed, hardly believing shed actually get to leave this gilded cage.
Ben was early. He came in, smiled, and simply said:
Mum, before giving her a warm hug.
Alice sat in the carand, in a shocking turn of events, so did Nadine. The two women exchanged looks. Anne felt an unexpected warmth in her chest.
All my fault. Always having to be in charge. Never let anyone just *live*. What was I thinking? Look at them. Theyre my family.
Thank you, Anne murmured, as Ben opened the car door and she climbed in.
Driving home, Anne was flooded with happiness and relief.
Things would change now. Shed make sure of it.
After all, its never too late to live, to be happy, and to make your loved ones happier too.
