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His Wife Packed Her Bags and Vanished Without a Trace — When Manipulation Backfires and Family Ties Are Tested
His wife packed her things and disappeared without a trace.
“Stop acting like a saint. Itll all work out. Women always come roundshell have a shout, calm down eventually. The main thing is, weve got a son. The family line goes on.”
Dinah said nothing.
“Josh,” she leaned in, lowering her voice to a whisper, “a week ago, you told me youd taken care of Samanthas pregnancy. What exactly did that mean?”
Josh put down his fork and leaned back in his chair.
“It means exactly that. For five years she kept giving me the runaround. ‘Not ready,’ ‘career,’ ‘lets wait.’ Well, when? Im thirty-two, Dinah. I wanted an heir. A real family, like everyone else.”
“So, I switched her pills.”
Dinah stared at him in disbelief.
“Did you tell her that? When?”
“The day she left,” Josh grunted. “She started screaming. So I said, ‘Well, get used to it, darlingyou wanted a child, I just helped things along.’
I thought shed calm down, realise she had no choice. But she well, shes odd. Grabbed her bag, ran out.”
***
On the kitchen table, right next to a pile of dirty baby bottles, lay her brothers abandoned hairbrush.
Dinah stared at it, feeling irritation bubble up inside her. Why was there always mess?
The baby in the cot in the next room had finally quietened down, but the silence brought no reliefwithin an hour, two at most, it would all start up again.
Dinah straightened her dressing gown and reached for the kettle. Just a month ago theyd brought Samantha, her sister-in-law, back from the hospital. Josh had been glowing, fussing over everything, handing the nurses enormous bouquets, while Samantha
Samantha had looked like she was being taken to the gallows, not home.
Dinah had put it down to tiredness at the timefirst baby, hormones, all that She should have spotted something was wrong.
The front door slammedher brother was home. He strode into the kitchen, already loosening his tie, and immediately poked around in the fridge.
“Anything to eat?” he asked, not even glancing at her.
“Pasta in the pot. I boiled some sausages.”
“Josh, hes only just gone to sleep. Keep it down, please?”
Josh grunted, grabbing a plate.
“Im knackered, Dinah. Been on my feet all day. Those clientsbattered my soul.”
“Hows the little chap?”
“The little chap is your son,” Dinah placed her mug on the table with perhaps more force than was needed. “His name is Arthur. And he screamed for three hours straight. His tummy hurts.”
“Well, you can handle it,” Josh shrugged indifferently, sitting down at the table. “Youre a womanits in your blood.”
“Mum raised both of us on her own too, when Dad was always off on site somewhere.”
Dinah bit her lip. She wanted to hurl the plate at him.
She was only living here temporarily, until she could sort out her studio rent debts, but in just two weeks shed become a free nanny, cook and housemaid.
And Josh acted as if nothing had happened. As if his wife hadnt packed her things and vanished without a word.
“Has Samantha called?” Dinah asked, watching him wolf down his dinner.
Josh froze momentarily, fork halfway to his mouth. His face darkened.
“Wont take my calls. Ignores my messages. Think about itleaving your baby behind! Mad. All because I swapped her pills to help things along.”
“Youre a disgrace, Josh,” Dinah said quietly.
“Excuse me?” he rounded on her. “I did it for the family! I work, bring in money!”
“But she walked out on the child! Whos to blame for that?”
“You took away her choice, Josh. You lied to someone you claimed to love. How did you think shed react? Thank you, darling, for destroying my life?”
“Oh, dont start,” Josh waved his hand. “Shell get over it. Wheres she got left to go? Her babys here. Her things are here. Moneyll run dry, shell come crawling back. Meanwhileyoull help, yeah? Im totally snowed under, end of tax year and all that.”
Dinah didnt answer. She left the kitchen and headed for the nursery.
Arthur was breathing softly, tiny fists curled. Dinah looked at him, her heart aching.
One sidethis defenseless little being, innocent in all of it. The otherSamantha, trapped with nowhere to turn.
She felt for them both.
She got out her phone, opened the messenger app. Samantha had been online just three minutes earlier. Dinah typed for a long time, deleted, typed again.
“Samantha, its Dinah. Im not asking you to go back to him. I just want to know youre ok. And its hard on my own. Maybe we could talk? No yelling, just talk.”
The reply came ten minutes later.
“Im in a hotel. Off on a business trip to another city in three days, for three weeks. Was planned ages agolong before I found out everything. When Im back, Ill file for divorce. Im not abandoning Arthur, Dinah. But I cant be there right now. I cant even look at him. Every time I do, I see Josh!”
Dinah exhaled.
“I get it, honestly. Josh told me everything.”
“Is he proud of himself?”
“In a way. Hes convinced youll come back.”
“Let him dream. Dinah, if youre really struggling, say so. Ill figure out a way to hire a nanny, transfer money. But I wont go back to him. Never.”
Dinah set aside her phone and sighed deeply. She needed to find work, pay off her debts and rebuild her life.
But she could not leave Arthur in Joshs care, a man who hadnt a clue which way up a nappy went.
***
The next three days passed like a never-ending nightmare.
Josh came home late, ate and crashed in bed. If she asked for help, it was always, “Im tired,” or, “You know better how to sort him out.”
One night, Arthur cried so long Dinah reached her breaking point.
She marched into her brothers room and switched on the light.
“Get up,” she said icily.
Josh grimaced, pulling the pillow over his head.
“Dinah, leave it. Ive got an early start.”
“I dont care. Go and settle your son. Hes hungry, and I cant feed himIm shaking with exhaustion.”
“You mad? Thats why youre here! I give you a roof, pay the bills!”
“Oh, is that it?” Dinah snapped. “So Im basically staff?”
“Call it what you want,” he grumbled. “Samanthall come back, then you can have a rest. Till thendo your job.”
Dinah walked out, silent.
That night she didnt sleep. She sat in the kitchen rocking the bassinet with her foot, wondering how to teach her brother a lesson. Josh had truly lost the plot.
The next morning, when Josh had left, Dinah messaged Samantha again.
“We need to meet. Today. While hes out. Please.”
Samantha agreed.
They met in a small park near the house.
Samantha looked dreadful; pale, hollow-eyed, thin.
She approached the pram and gazed at her son for a long time. Her hands trembled.
“Hes grown,” she said softly. “Changed so much in two weeks”
“Samantha, he wont even remember this,” Dinah said gently.
“I know,” Samantha hid her face in her hands. “Dinah, Im not a monster. I maybe I do love him, somewhere deep down, I feel hes my child.
But the thought of living with Josh, sharing a bed with someone who deceived me like that it makes it hard to breathe.”
“What if you dont have to live with Josh?” Dinah asked.
Samantha looked up.
“What do you mean?”
“He thinks you have nowhere else. He acts like you belong to him along with the baby. But the truth ishes not a father, hes a project manager, and the project is The Perfect Family. He doesnt wake up at night, he doesnt know how to mix formula. He wanted an heir, not responsibility.”
“So what are you suggesting?”
“You go on your work trip,” Dinah said firmly. “Take time to recover. Ill stay here for three more weeks. Ill prepare everything in the meantime.”
“Prepare what?”
“The divorce. Custody arrangements. Samantha, you dont have to go back. You can rent a flat. I can move in and help with Arthur while youre at work. My finances are looking upa couple of freelance jobs have come through. Well manage, just us two. Without him.”
Samantha looked at her, uncertain.
“Youd go against your brother?”
“Hes my brother, but what he did was wrong. I wont help him keep up a lie. He thinks Im on his side because I have nowhere to go. Hes mistaken.”
Samantha was quiet for a long time, watching the sun flicker on the pram hood.
“What about him? He wont just hand over the baby. Therell be a scene.”
“There will,” Dinah nodded. “But we have an acehe admitted swapping your pills. If that comes out in court, with me as a witness and Ill tell them about his lack of help too. He doesnt want a child, Samantha. He just wants control. When he realises Arthur needs real effort, hell back off. Easier for him to play wronged dad to his mates than be a real parent.”
For the first time in ages, Samantha smiled faintly.
“Youre all grown up, Dinah.”
“I had to be,” Dinah replied with a sigh. “So, are we agreed?”
“We are. Thank you.”
The next three weeks flew by.
Josh grew more irritable; he noticed Dinah no longer fetched his dinner the second he walked through the door.
“Whens Samantha back?” he grumbled one evening, tossing his briefcase onto the sofa.
“Tomorrow,” Dinah replied shortly, cuddling Arthur.
“At last. Maybe we can go to a proper restaurantfed up of your pasta. Must buy her a present to stop her moaning. Maybe a ring, or earrings. Women love that stuff.”
Dinah looked at him with open disgust.
“And you really think thats going to fix everything?”
“Look,” Josh approached, trying to pat her on the shoulder, but she pulled away. “Stop playing the saint. Itll all blow over. Women forgive easilythey scream, then forget. The main thing is, we have a sonthe line continues.”
Dinah remained silent.
***
Samantha returned the next morning, while Josh was at work. She waited downstairs in her car. Dinah had already packed up all the baby things, her own suitcases, the essentials.
She had to make three trips to get everything downstairs. Arthur slept soundly in his car seat.
Once the last bag was loaded, Dinah went up one last time to leave the keys.
She placed them on the kitchen table, right where Joshs hairbrush had been three weeks ago. Next to them, a note.
“Joshweve gone. Dont look for Samantha. Shell contact you through her solicitor. Arthurs with her. I am too.
You wanted a family but forgot its built on trust, not manipulation.
Pastas in the fridge. Its your mess to deal with now.”
They left.
Samantha rented a small but cosy flat on the other side of town. The first days were hard: Arthur was fussy in the new place, Samantha tearful, Dinahs phone constantly buzzing with angry calls and messages from Josh.
He shouted, threatened, cursed them both. Promised to drag them through court, take the child, leave them penniless.
Dinah listened, calm.
They stuck it out.
Eventually, Josh ran out of steam, and disappeared from their lives.
The divorce was dealt with in court; he didnt say a word about wanting full custody.
Dinah had been rightJosh didnt want the hassle, and was happier to pay maintenance and move on. He didnt even push for visiting rights.
In the end, trust and kindness proved more important than playing the part of the perfect family. No matter how strong the urge to control and force things, real families are built with respectfor each others choices, and for the truth.
