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British Pensioner Shares Heartbreaking Story: “The Last Time I Saw My Son Was Over Six Years Ago – A…
How long has it been since your son last spoke to you? I asked my neighbour and in that moment, my heart sank.
Its been over six years since I last saw him. After he moved away with his wife, he used to call me every so often, at first. But then he just stopped staying in touch. One year I baked him a birthday cake, went round to see him and at this point, she looked down and tears rolled down her cheeks.
What happened then?
My daughter-in-law opened the door and told me I wasnt welcome at their house. My son didnt say a word, just looked at me like Id done something wrong, and then looked away. That was the last time I saw him.
And he never phoned you after that? I honestly couldnt believe it.
I did ring him once, when I decided to sell the three-bedroom flat and move into a smaller place. Of course, I gave him some money from the sale. He came round, signed the papers, took the money, and never called me again.
Do you feel very lonely or have you come to terms with being on your own? I asked softly.
Im alright! When I was much younger, I ended up raising my son by myself after my husband left me for someone else. I brought my boy up with care and all the love I could give. Later on, he told me he wanted to rent his own flat. At first, I was pleased I thought it meant he was growing up and starting to become independent.
But there was more to it his girlfriend was the real reason. She wanted them to have their own place so no one would interfere with their fun. Not long after, she fell pregnant.
Youre telling me all this so calmly. Dont you feel sad that your sons abandoned you now youre older? I was surprised at her composure.
Ive got used to it. I like living in this new block. Ive got enough savings for everything I need. Every morning, I wake up, put the kettle on, and go out onto the balcony with my tea. I sit there and watch the city come alive. When I was younger, all I dreamed about was having a good nights sleep, because I had to work two jobs. I used to imagine Id grow old surrounded by loved ones, but maybe I was meant to do this on my own.
Why not get yourself a pet? Its always a bit livelier with two.
Oh love, even cats wander off and leave their owners sometimes. And I couldnt get a dog because, frankly, I dont know for sure that Ill be here to walk it in the morning. I cant take responsibility for a soul I might not be around to care for. Ive made enough mistakes in that department already
She tried to hold herself together, but in the end, she just broke down and cried.
