З життя
Дивлячись прямо в очі: Ми не хочемо невістку-ганьбу!
Прямо сказав їй в очі: Не хочемо невістку з бідної родини!
Мені 57 років, я не маю своєї сім’ї і дітей, але хочу дати пораду всім батькам: не втручайтеся в життя своїх дочок і синів, не змушуйте їх жити за своїми правилами, адже немає жодної гарантії, що те, що робить вас щасливими, зробить щасливими й їх.
Я – живий приклад того, як в намаганні забезпечити мені найкраще, мої батьки розлучили мене з жінкою, яку я любив більше, ніж себе.
Марійка була з бідної родини, а у моїх батьків були спадкові землі та маєтки, і вони вважали себе значними людьми.
Коли я вирішив познайомити їх із Марійкою, вони прямо ж вигнали її, сказавши, що не хочуть невістку з бідної родини. І вона пішла – ображена, але з піднятою головою.
Вона відмовилася кудись поїхати разом зі мною.
Говорила, що рано чи пізно мої батьки зроблять усе, щоб нас розлучити.
Вона вийшла заміж за свого сусіда, в якого теж не було нічого.
Обоє вони старанно працювали і збудували будинок на околиці міста.
Народили трьох дітей, і кожного разу, коли я бачив Марійку на вулиці, вона завжди усміхалася і виглядала щасливою.
Якось я запитав її, чи любить вона свого чоловіка.
Вона відповіла, що зрозуміла: для сім’ї важливіша стабільність і взаєморозуміння між подружжям. Якщо цього немає, на одній лише любові далеко не заїдеш.
Я не погоджувався з нею, проте не міг сперечатися, не мав права, бо відчував себе зрадником.
Не міг змиритися з втратою Марійки і, на відміну від неї, не одружився.
Не міг уявити себе з іншою жінкою та дітьми без любові до неї.
Мої батьки намагалися підшукати мені дівчину, яка б їм подобалася і була, на їхню думку, для мене підходящою, але я категорично відмовлявся.
Зрештою, вони змирилися і почали просити мене знайти дружину на свій смак, щоб продовжити наш рід.
Але я не хотів нікого, окрім Марійки. Проте вона давно влаштувала своє життя, і для мене в ньому не було місця.
Батьки постаріли, захворіли, і один за одним пішли з життя.
Я залишився сам у нашому великому триповерховому будинку.
Все рідше зустрічаюся з друзями, бо вони тепер виховують онуків і їм не до мене. Та й я їх уникати почав.
Радію їхньому щастю, але водночас сумую через нього.
У суботи і неділі заповнюю свій час, фарбуючи й лагодячи гірки, гойдалки та гірки на дитячих майданчиках у нашому місті.
Іноді допомагаю з облаштуванням дворів дитячих садків.
Роблю це суто добровільно і безкоштовно, бо не потребую грошей. Таким чином роблю щасливими чужих дітей та онуків.
Я продав усі землі та спадкові маєтки, що залишилися від моїх батьків.
На виручені кошти зробив пожертви в кілька шкіл та притулків для покинутих дітей.
Один з моїх друзів поцікавився, чому не пожертвую гроші ще в якийсь будинок для літніх людей. Але я не хочу.
Як би жорстоко це не звучало, так я мстив батькам, через яких залишився на самоті.
Та й майбутнє за дітьми, а не за старшими, правда ж?
Маленькі потребують більше уваги і доброго старту в житті.
А коли я помру, мій будинок перейде у власність школи, яку я закінчив.
Якщо хочуть, нехай використовують її, як їм зручно, якщо ні – нехай продають.
Головне, щоб це було для доброї справи!
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