З життя
Я порадила синові розлучитися, коли його шлюб зазнав краху.
Вирішила порадити сину розлучитися, тому що в його шлюбі справи йшли не найкраще. Він міг би бути таким же добрим батьком, навіть не живучи разом із дітьми. Зрештою, син прислухався до мене і подав заяву на розлучення. Невістка не могла повірити, що це була моя ідея, звинуватила мене у втручанні в їхню сім’ю. Тепер я не впевнена, чи правильно вчинила…
Мій син довго відкладав пошук нареченої, але я не втручалася. Врешті-решт, коли йому виповнилося 30 років, він знайшов відповідну жінку – Оксану.
Майже щодня я чула, яка вона добра і красива. Нарешті, син був щиро закоханий. Я теж полюбила Оксану. З неймовірною пристрастю син розповідав про неї як мені, так і друзям. Вона була жінкою його мрії, тому він не зволікав і швидко одружився. Як любляча мати, я, звісно, підтримала його вибір.
Весілля було справді чудовим. У дівчини були дуже добрі батьки, з якими ми одразу здружилися. Спочатку все було чудово, але з часом ситуація почала змінюватися. У їхньому шлюбі все частіше виникали непорозуміння. Я розуміла, що перший рік шлюбу складний, і пара має пристосуватися один до одного. Однак я хвилювалася, адже прагнула, щоб їхній шлюб був вдалим і щасливим.
Того вечора я дуже розхвилювалася. Пізно ввечері до мене прийшов син зі своїми речами. Сказав, що йому ніде переночувати, бо невістка його вигнала. Він залишився у мене на кілька днів, і Оксана не приходила, щоб помиритися. Така ситуація повторювалася знову та знову.
Коли невістка повідомила, що очікує дитину, я вирішила з ними поговорити. Хотіла щиро дати кілька порад, які допоможуть уникнути подальших непорозумінь. Виявилося, що лише погіршила ситуацію. Незрозумілості між ними почастішали, і син частіше ночував у мене. Я знала, що йому дуже важко. Він уже не був щасливим чоловіком, у його очах було лише розчарування.
Не могла дивитися на нещастя сина і порадила йому подумати, чи варто залишатися у таких стосунках. Син міг бути таким же хорошим батьком, живучи окремо. Так і сталося, незабаром він подав до суду документи на розлучення.
Невдовзі після цього Оксана прийшла до мене з проханням допомогти. Вона просила переконати сина забрати заяву про розлучення, оскільки не хотіла руйнувати сім’ю. Не раз я радила їй подбати про свою сім’ю. Зізналася, що розлучення було моєю ідеєю, і коли вона це зрозуміла, накричала на мене за втручання в їх сім’ю.
Тепер я не знаю, чи мала схиляти сина до розлучення. Невістка мене не терпить, а син теж ставиться до мене дедалі холодніше. Можливо, вони все ще кохають одне одного. Погано, коли вони окремо, але живучи разом, також не можуть дійти згоди.
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