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История, которая повторилась: мать ушла, дочь ушла — а дед остался с внучкой
Светлана всегда умела выбирать. Вокруг неё водились богатые, влиятельные, успешные мужчины. Но вопреки ожиданиям родных и подруг, она выбрала простого парня из Екатеринбурга — Антона. Не красавец, не карьерист, не бизнесмен. Просто честный, добрый, отзывчивый. Тот, кто смотрит в глаза и держит за руку, когда тяжело. Они прожили вместе всего несколько месяцев, когда расписались, а через полгода родилась крохотная Анечка. И тогда началось настоящее испытание.
Светлана ни за что не хотела бросать карьеру. В её отделе сулили повышение, она блистала на совещаниях, моталась по командировкам и ночами корпела над отчётами. Антона же внезапно уволили — компания оптимизировала штат, и его фамилия оказалась в списке без лишних разговоров. Вот тогда Светлана и предложила: «Ты побудь в декрете. У тебя лучше получится». И он согласился, без возражений. Сначала ради неё, потом — ради дочки.
Жили они далеко от родных, помощи ждать было неоткуда. Антон, как старший брат в большой семье, знал, что значит заботиться о малышах. Он с головой погрузился в пелёнки, бутылочки, каши, ночные бдения и очереди в детскую поликлинику. Со временем он так втянулся, что стал своим среди мамочек у песочницы. Обсуждал первые зубки, прививки и способы убаюкивания как заправский специалист.
А Светлана жила на колёсах. Переговоры, отчёты, корпоративы, ужины с клиентами. Она приезжала домой на пару дней, а потом снова исчезала. Антон терпел. Но однажды попросил: «Я тоже хочу работать. Давай возьмём няню». Она отмахнулась:
— Анечка к тебе привыкла. Никакая няня не справится так, как ты. Потерпи ещё немного, хорошо?
Он снова согласился. Но вскоре она вернулась из командировки и, не сняв пальто, заявила:
— Я полюбила другого. Он не хочет детей. Поэтому Анечка останется с тобой. Я за вещами.
— Что?! Как это — просто уходишь?
— Я больше не люблю тебя, Тоня. Прости. Но ты справишься.
И ушла. Без слёз, без объяснений. Будто вычеркнула их из своей жизни. Антон остался один. С крохотной дочкой, без работы, без поддержки. Но он не сдался. Нашёл подработки, устроил Анечку в садик, крутился как мог. А Светлана появлялась лишь на дни рождения — с подарком и дежурной улыбкой на пятнадцать минут.
Дочь росла красивой, умной и чуткой. В школе она старалась изо всех сил, а дома обнимаОтец, который не сдался, научил её главному – настоящая семья не та, что оставляет, а та, что остаётся.
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A Carer for the Wife — “What do you mean?” Lida thought she’d misheard. “Where am I supposed to move out to? Why? For what reason?” — “Oh, let’s not have a scene, alright?” He grimaced. “What’s not clear here? There’s no one left for you to care for. Where you go is no concern of mine.” — “Ed, what are you talking about? Weren’t we supposed to get married?..” — “That’s what you came up with. I never promised anything like that.” At 32, Lida decided it was time for a drastic change and to leave her little English village behind. What was left for her there? To keep listening to her mother’s nagging? Her mum just wouldn’t let it go, always bringing up the divorce—how could Lida let her husband slip away? And that Vas—he was never worth a kind word anyway—always drinking and running around! How did she ever manage to marry him eight years ago? Lida didn’t even feel upset when the divorce happened—on the contrary, she actually felt as though she could finally breathe. 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So they asked me.” — “Perfect!” said Edward, putting on a mournful face. “My wife, Tamara, had a stroke too. The doctors say she’s unlikely to recover. I’ve brought her home but don’t have time to care for her. Can you help? I’ll pay good money.” Lida didn’t have to think twice. Anything was better than freezing for ten hours at the market dealing with picky shoppers! Besides, Edward offered her a room—no more rent! — “There are three separate rooms! You could play football in there!” she told Sally happily. “No kids or anything.” Tamara’s mother was a real character too—at 68 still trying to look 40, recently remarried, always busy with her new husband. No one to care for her sick daughter. — “Is she really that ill?” Sally asked. — “Not much hope I’m afraid—she’s bedridden and just moans. She probably won’t get better.” — “And you’re happy about that?” Sally shot a look at her. — “No, of course not,” Lida glanced away, “but Edward might be free someday…” — “You serious, Lida? 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She listened to her husband’s tirade, then asked, “Again?” Valery waved her off and put the phone on speaker—immediately met by sobbing. Veronica’s older sister had a natural talent for making even stones melt in pity. But their parents had developed a tough skin after so many years. “What do you mean ‘he threw you out’?” Valery started to pace the cramped corridor. “Damn right. Who’d put up with your never-ending drunkenness? Have you ever looked at yourself in the mirror? You’re thirty, but you look like a battered dog.” Veronica crept her door open an inch. “Dad, please…” The sobs suddenly cut out. “He put my things out on the landing. I’ve nowhere to go. It’s cold, it’s raining… I’ll come to you, okay? Just for a couple of days. Just to get some sleep…” Mother lunged for the phone, but Valery turned away. “No!” he barked. “You’re not coming in this house. We agreed last time—after you hocked the TV while we were at the cottage, the door to this family shut for you!” “Mum! Mum, say something!” came the desperate cry. Tatiana covered her face. Her shoulders shook. “Larissa, how could you…” she sobbed, avoiding her husband’s eyes. “We took you to the doctors, we… You promised. The last treatment, they said it would last three years. You didn’t even last a month.” “Those treatments are rubbish!” Larissa snapped back, her voice suddenly venomous. “They’re just taking your money! I’m suffering here! Everything’s burning inside, I can’t breathe! And you’re worried about a TV! As if I won’t buy you a new one!” “With what?!” Valery stopped, glaring at a spot on the wall. “With what, when you’ve spent everything? Borrowed from your drinking friends again? Or sold something from your boyfriend’s flat, what’s his name?” “Doesn’t matter!” Larissa yelled. “Dad, I’ve nowhere to go! What do you want, for me to sleep under a bridge?” “Go to a shelter. Go anywhere,” her father’s voice went cold. “But you aren’t walking through this door. 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