З життя
Коли моя сестра передала майно своїй дочці, я багато разів їй казала
Коли моя сестра вирішила подарувати майно своїй дочці, я не раз говорила їй: “Ти мудра жінка, Марічко. Я багато чого бачила в житті, але знаєш, як буває по-різному. Іноді діти доглядають за батьками до останнього моменту, але іноді їм лише спадок потрібен. Якщо зараз віддаси свою квартиру, на старості років можеш залишитися без даху над головою. Подумай про це”. Сестра сміялася і все одно віддала квартиру дочці, бо син жив далеко. Семь років вона прожила в своїй квартирі, а потім Олена розтратила спадок.
Коли сестра вирішила подарувати дочці своє майно, я сказала: “Ти мудра жінка, Марічко. Я багато в житті бачила, але знаєш, буває по-різному. Іноді діти доглядають за батьками до останнього, а іноді їх цікавить лише спадщина. Якщо віддаси квартиру зараз, можеш на старість залишитися без даху. Подумай про це”.
Ніколи не забуду погляду моєї сестри, коли я це говорила. Вона сміялася довго, а потім навіть образилася. Як я могла так говорити про її дочку, яку знаю з дитинства. Намагаючись пояснити, що бажаю лише добра, я наголосила: справа не в тому, що Олена погана людина, але в житті різне трапляється, і не варто здавати квартиру так легко.
Сестра мене не послухала. Віддала квартиру дочці, оскільки не хотіла, щоб вона дісталася сину, який з дружиною живе далеко і давно не відвідує матір.
Перші сім років Марія жила в улюбленій квартирі. Потім Олена оголосила, що планує продати квартиру, щоб відкрити власний бізнес. Вона вирішила орендувати однокімнатну квартиру для себе і матері на цей час. Марія не була в захваті, проте не перечила дочці. Якось Олена сказала, що її бізнес збанкрутував, і вона змушена була позичити гроші, тепер в боргах. Тому вирішила поїхати за кордон, не звертаючи уваги на думку матері.
Поки дочка була за кордоном, син вирішив допомогти матері грішми, проте наголошував, що більше нічого не може зробити. Гроші швидко розійшлися, і залишилася лише невелика пенсія Марії.
Якось сестра приїхала до мене в село. Вона просила знайти хоч маленьку кімнатку в моєму домі, а коли дочка повернеться, забере її до міста. Я добре знала, що Олена навряд чи забере матір. Їй це було байдуже. Бачила, як важко Марії. Хотіла забрати її до себе, але мої діти були проти. Вони не хотіли доглядати стару чужу людину.
Я запросила сестру в дім, нагодувала. Її очі випромінювали смуток. Вона не усвідомлювала, якого великого зробила кроку, передавши квартиру дочці. Адже я її попереджала. Вона в глибині душі вірить, що Олена повернеться і забере її до себе.
Зараз шукаю вирішення цієї ситуації. З одного боку, розумію своїх дітей, а з іншого, шкода Марії.
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