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Мамина смерть була довгою, важкою і некрасивою
Умирала мама довго, важко і некрасиво… Тільки її очі… Чим ближчою ставала неминучість, тим чорнішими вони були. Напередодні вони були оксамитово-непрозорими, невимовно розумними й усевидючими… Чи, можливо, просто шкіра на її обличчі ставала все білішою?
Якось у кінці літа я привіз її з дачі і, оскільки вже було пізно, залишився у неї на ніч. Серед ночі, дорогою в туалет, вона впала і зламала, як з’ясувалося пізніше, шийку стегна. Для старшої людини це майже вирок.
Далі все відбулося досить швидко: швидка — травматологія — операція і десять днів у лікарні.
Коли їхали до лікарні, я згадав, як ночував у своєї виховательки з дитячого садка Ганни Петрівни, коли ховали батька, що на своєму старенькому мотоциклі потрапив під вантажівку на нічному шосе. Мамі було двадцять вісім, мені три, і вона не хотіла травмувати мене новиною про смерть, тому на час похорону відвела мене з дому і сказала, що батько поїхав у відрядження… Заміж вона більше так і не вийшла, боялася, що новий чоловік не стане для мене справжнім батьком.
Коли її виписали з лікарні, довелося залишити роботу, щоб доглядати за нею: доглядальницю не могли собі дозволити, оскільки молодшому сину в той час купували квартиру.
Я переїхав до маминих однокімнатних апартаментів, де змінював на ній підгузки три-шість разів на день, мив та годував її. Вона не скаржилася. Ні на що. Терпіла. Тільки ойкувала по-дитячому, якщо не обережно перевертав її. А тоді шепотіла: «Нічого-нічого, все, сину, добре…»
Я навіть не знав раніше, що такий гидливий і слабкий. Вночі, коли лежав на дивані поруч з її ліжком, тихо плакав від відчаю. Напевно, було б красиво сказати, що це були сльози жалю до неї. Так, це правда, але тільки частково, бо себе було жаль ще більше.
Розраховувати на чиюсь допомогу не можна було: обидва сини зайняті на роботі і в своїх родинах, а дружина… Дружина сказала: «Ну, так адже вона тобі — мама, а мені — просто чужа жінка…»
В цей момент я згадав, чомусь, як вперше привів свою Таню додому, щоб познайомити з мамою. Вона була дуже привітна весь вечір. Коли ж я повернувся після проводження нареченої і запитально подивився на маму, вона трохи знизила плечима і сказала: «Не знаю, але щось не так… Однак тебе, сину, це ні до чого не зобов’язує. Адже ти одружуєшся з нею, а не я».
Все життя їхні стосунки з моєю дружиною були чудовими. Тепер же, як колись, дуже давно, ми з мамою знову були тільки вдвох, а вечорами, вже лягаючи і загасивши світло, довго розмовляли. І вона розповідала мені про бабусю і дідуся, про те, як німці прийшли в їхнє село, а вона зі старшою сестрою ховалася за парканом та підглядала за чужими ситими людьми, що грали на губних гармошках і постійно над чимось сміялися.
Розповідала про батька, якого я майже не пам’ятав. А може, і справді не пам’ятав… Тінь якась у пам’яті залишилася. Великий, з колючими щоками і противно пахучий тютюном чоловік бере мене на руки і цілує, цілує, цілує, коли приходить з роботи, і постійно повторює: «Синочку мій, син, син!».
А потім мамі ставало все гірше й гірше, і наші нічні розмови з нею поступово затихли. Мені все здавалося, що це тому, що я її погано, несмачно годую. І тому почав замовляти їжу з ресторану, яку привозили гарячою, ретельно упакованою. Коли я запитував у мами, чи смачно, вона понуро і байдужо кивала головою й казала: «Ти у мене за цей час справжнім кухарем став». До їжі ж майже не торкалася.
В останню ніч, яку мама провела вдома, вона чомусь згадала, як уперше в нашому місті з’явилися кулькові ручки, а я в той час навчався в третьому класі і тільки чув про них. Зате тато Лєни Пономарьової таку ручку звідкись їй привіз. Вона була настільки прекрасна, ця ручка, що я… Одним словом, увечері я з захопленням мамі вдома цю ручку показав. Дізнавшись, як вона у мене з’явилася, мама побила мене. Боляче. Прямо ременем. А потім взяла мене і ручку, і ми (втрьох: мама, я і ручка!) пішли до Пономарьових, щоб повернути скарб його законним власникам.
Я ледь пам’ятав цей епізод, а мама почала просити у мене вибачення за те, що побила, і намагалася виправдатися, кажучи, що дуже боялася, щоб я не став злодієм.
Я гладив свою маму по щоці і чомусь згорав від сорому перед нею, хоч злодієм і не став.
Коли вже під ранок їй стало зовсім погано, і її забирала швидка, вона на мить отямилася, вирвалася з передсмертного забуття, взяла мене за руку й сказала: «Господи, як же ти тут… без мене… залишишся… Молодий бо зовсім… дурний…»
Мама не дожила півтора місяці до свого вісімдесят дев’яти років. На наступний день після її смерті мені виповнилося шістдесят чотири…
Bittersweet Happiness – “What’s wrong with that young lady? She’s a good girl. Modest, neat, a hardworking student. She loves you,” Helen Edwards chastised her son. “Mum, I’ll handle it…” Denis clearly ended the pointless conversation. Helen left the room. “He’ll handle it… How many girls has he turned away… Nearly forty, and soon no one will do. Nothing’s ever right for him…” she thought with a heavy sigh. “Son, dinner’s ready,” Helen called from the kitchen. Denis responded instantly, tucking into his mother’s homemade stew. “Thank you, Mum. Delicious, as always.” “You should be saying that to your wife, not me,” Helen couldn’t let it go. “Mum…” Denis drank his compote and prepared to leave. “Wait, son. Do you know, I once visited a fortune-teller? She took one look at me and said: ‘Your son will have happiness, but it will be bittersweet.’” “Oh, Mum, don’t believe such things,” Denis grinned. …Through the years, different women—some loved, some not—came and went in Denis’s life. …Inna was smart, cultured, shockingly wise for her age. She often gave sound advice to the nine-years-older Denis. At first he liked this, but then he began to see Inna more as a mentor than anything else. Everything felt colourless. They split up. Polly had an eight-year-old son. Try as he might, Denis couldn’t get through to the boy, though he loved Polly. She was beautiful, but too headstrong. Whenever they quarrelled, he’d try to patch things up with gifts. The arguments felt senseless. Something was always missing—maybe peace and stability. Vera was everything he’d ever wanted in a woman. Denis almost married her. She was decent, pure, balanced—he felt like he had to “wear kid gloves” just to speak to her. He even moved into her flat. He was ready to start a family. But… He came home unexpectedly from a work trip to find Vera in bed with her old school friend. Classic… After that, Denis moved back in with his mum. Enough romance, he decided. “I’ll be a bachelor—a solid family of one,” he joked to his mum. Helen would shrug and sigh: “Will you ever find your one, son?” But fate had its own plan. Suddenly, unexpectedly. Denis was travelling for work, claimed his usual bottom bunk in the train carriage. A woman entered: “Excuse me, would you mind swapping? Can I have your lower bunk? Please.” “No trouble,” Denis replied. He looked her over—nothing remarkable. Yet his heart skipped. “Maybe she’s the one…” He clambered onto the top bunk and dozed off… “Glad you’re awake! Come, have some tea,” the stranger cooed. Denis climbed down and they started talking. “Larissa,” she introduced herself. “Denis. Nice to meet you, Larissa.” They talked throughout the evening. Denis felt instantly at ease. He didn’t try to impress her; everything just flowed, as if he’d known her forever. They exchanged numbers, just in case… A couple of weeks later, he couldn’t resist calling her. One thing led to another… Dates, kisses, promises… Denis couldn’t imagine his life without Larissa. At forty years old! He’d always let previous girlfriends go easily—but not this one… He wanted to lose himself entirely in her life. Larissa surrounded Denis with love, care, and understanding. Three months in, he offered his heart and hand. “Denis, I’m seven years older than you. I have three children. We live in a council flat,” Larissa admitted. She never lied. “I know, Lara. I’ve met your kids—you’ll all move in with me. It’s sorted. I love every inch of you. You’re my last and only,” said Denis, kissing her tenderly. “All right, Denis, let’s give it a try,” murmured a shy Larissa. “No, not try, Lara. We’ll be together. For good,” Denis squeezed her hand. “Do you hear me? Forever.” When Helen learned his plans, all she could say was: “You’ve really outdone yourself this time… The plainest girl of them all…” …Nine months later, their daughter was born—a child with Down’s syndrome. Denis felt both joy and worry for Larissa. Would she cope? Having a child with special needs is never easy. …Today, Denis and Larissa’s daughter is eight. The whole family adores her. Denis worships Larissa. Bittersweet, but happiness…
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