З життя
Мій син завжди був моїм другом та опорою, але після весілля ми стали чужими.
Мій син був моїм другом і опорою все життя. Але після весілля ми стали чужими.
Ніколи не думала, що моя дитина може так змінитися під впливом іншої людини. Мій єдиний син, Олексій, завжди був золотим хлопчиком — ввічливим, добрим, готовим прийти на допомогу. Таким він ріс, таким залишився і дорослим. Поки не одружився, ми майже не розлучалися: часто бачилися, годинами говорили про все на світі, ділилися успіхами та невдачами, допомагали одне одному. Звісно, в межах розумного — я не втручалася в його життя без міри. Але все зруйнувалося, коли в його долі з’явилася вона — Марина.
На весілля Марина та Олексій отримали від її батьків подарунок — однокімнатну квартиру в центрі Києва, щойно після ремонту. Це стало їхнім власним гніздечком. Я жодного разу не була у них в гостях, але син показував мені фотографії на телефоні: світлі стіни, нові меблі, затишок. Після смерті чоловіка у мене не залишилося ніяких заощаджень, і я вирішила віддати молодятам майже всі свої коштовності — золоті ланцюжки, каблучки, сережки, які збирала роками. Сказала Марині: «Якщо захочеш переплавити, я не проти». Хотіла зробити їм добре, підтримати на початку їхнього шляху.
Але Марина… Вона одразу показала себе. Жінка з характером — гострим, як лезо. Я помітила, як вона заглядала в конверти з грошима, які їм подарували на весіллі, — її розбирала цікавість, скільки там. Це насторожувало. З одного боку, така хватка могла б зробити її гарною дружиною, але з іншого — з нею треба бути насторожі. Сучасні жінки часто бачать у чоловікові гаманець, витрачають його гроші як свої, а потім розлучаються, забирають половину і шукають нову здобич. Я не бажаю Олексію такої долі, але тривога гризе мене зсередини.
Через пів року після весілля Марина заявила, що дітей поки не хоче. Мовляв, у їхній тісній квартирі це неможливо. Вона розводила руками: «Що робити? Брати кредит не хочу, а на більшу квартиру ми невідомо коли заробимо. Олексій ще не став великим начальником». Вона розмірковувала вголос, але я чула в її голосі розрахунок. А я живу у будинку, який почав будувати мій покійний чоловік. Він так і стоїть недобудований, з дірками в стінах. Взимку в ньому холодно, як у льодовнику, — на опалення всієї махіни у мене не вистачає пенсії. І тут Марина видала: «Продай будинок, купи собі маленьку квартиру, а решту віддай нам на нову квартиру. Тоді і про дітей подумаємо».
Розумієте, що це означає? Вона хоче, щоб я, стара й немічна, переїхала в клітку, а вони забрали все найкраще. А потім, дивись, і цю квартиру у мене відберуть, відправивши в будинок для літніх людей. Спочатку я ще думала погодитися — якби вони хоч раз на місяць допомагали мені грошима. Але тепер? Ні за що! З такою, як Марина, потрібно бути на варті — від неї можна чекати будь-якої підлості.
Після тієї розмови Олексій навідувався до мене кілька разів. Натякав, що її ідея не така вже й погана: «Навіщо тобі великий будинок? У квартирі буде простіше, комунальні менші». Я стояла на своєму: «Місто росте, через 5-10 років будинки здорожчають. Моя ділянка вже не околиця, продавати зараз — дурниця». Якось я запропонувала: давайте поміняємося. Вони переїдуть у мій будинок, а я — в їхню квартиру. Адже це одне і те ж, вірно? Але Марина заперечила. Їй не сподобалося, що будинок треба ремонтувати, вкладатися, поки я буду жити в їхній подарованій квартирі без турбот. Їй потрібен комфорт, навіть якщо мій варіант вигідніший. Вона така — і нічого з цим не вдієш.
А потім я захворіла. Серйозно, до кісток. Лежала в ліжку, не могла встати — жар, кашель, голова розколювалася. Зателефонувала Олексію, благала приїхати, принести їжі, ліків. Я знала, що у молодих мало часу, але мені не до готування — сил не вистачало навіть на чайник. Раніше я і уявити не могла, що він все залишить і приїде. А тепер? Він з’явився тільки наступного дня. Зварив мені якийсь порошковий «Терафлю», кинув на стіл пачку аспірину — без упаковки, схоже, простроченого — знизав плечима і пішов. Слава богу, подруга врятувала — принесла суп, ліки, все, що потрібно. А якби її не було? Що тоді?
Мій син був моїм світлом, моєю опорою все життя. Я беззастережно довіряла йому — він був не просто сином, а другом, частиною мене. Але весілля все перегорнуло. Ми стали чужими, і я безсила це змінити. Він — моя єдина дитина, моя любов, моя гордість, але тепер я бачу: його серце більше не зі мною. Він обрав її. Марина стала між нами, як стіна, і я залишилася по той бік — одна, покинута, непотрібна. Розум твердить: зв’язок, що був, розірвано. Прийшов його час обирати — мати чи дружина. І вибір очевидний, як день. Але серце все ще сподівається, що він згадає, ким я для нього була, і повернеться. Але з кожним днем ця надія тане, як сніг під чужим сонцем.
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