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Моя дружина швидко вийшла з декрету, щоб зберегти добре оплачувану роботу.

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Моя дружина недовго перебувала у декретній відпустці, адже не хотіла втратити роботу, на якій добре заробляла. З нашою донечкою з ранку до вечора сиділа теща. Мама Лесі прибирала, прала і готувала для нас. Згодом вона порадила нам віддати дитину в садочок, адже їй потрібно зростати серед однолітків. Ми з дружиною вирішили, що це не підходить, а тоді теща заявила, що більше не доглядатиме за нашою дитиною, бо втомлена і не має сил.

Моя дружина і я маємо маленьку дитину. Донечці два з половиною роки. Ми довго чекали на неї, мріяли, і вона стала нашим найбільшим щастям і благословенням. Якось ми дізналися чудову новину, яка назавжди змінила наше життя на краще. Оксана і я стали батьками маленького янголятка.

Через дев’ять місяців народилася найлюбіша, найдорожча і найгарніша дівчинка у світі. Я, моя дружина і наші батьки безмежно радіємо цьому. З перших днів життя вона завжди оточена турботою рідних. Ми її дуже любимо, дружина пробула у декреті півтора року. Вона підписала угоду, що після цього часу або повернеться на роботу, або її місце займе хтось інший. І це був, фактично, компроміс.

Протягом минулого року моя теща, мама Лесі, доглядала за онукою протягом дня, а ввечері ми обоє поверталися з роботи і брали обов’язки на себе. Протягом цього періоду все було гаразд. Мама Лесі із задоволенням займалася онучкою без будь-яких нарікань.

Але недавно ситуація різко змінилася, і вона попросила звільнити її від обов’язків няні. Вона не намагається пояснити свою поведінку, просто поставила нас перед фактом. Коли ми стали питати, мама дружини заявила, що дитині потрібне спілкування з іншими дітьми і треба адаптуватись до суспільства якомога раніше.

Звісно, в телепередачах часто говорять такі речі, і вона почала думати в тому ж напрямку. Ми з дружиною вирішили обійтися без садочка. Багато наших друзів скаржаться, що як тільки дитина починає ходити до дитячого закладу, з’являються постійні нездужання без кінця. Тому ми вирішили залишити дитину вдома. Це лише на користь її здоров’ю. Вона для нас дуже важлива, маємо тільки її, тому приділяємо їй багато уваги.

Дружина розповіла матері свою думку, але та заявила, що втомилася, не має сил бігати за дитиною. Загалом, вона поставила нас перед фактом: не буде доглядати за маленькою, і крапка.

Як тепер знайти з нею спільну мову? Яка жінка! Хоче віддати дитину до садочка, хоча могла б бути з нею сама.

Моя дружина недовго перебувала у декретній відпустці, адже не хотіла втратити роботу, де добре заробляла. З нашою донечкою з ранку до вечора сиділа теща. Мама Лесі прибирала, прала і готувала для нас. Згодом вона порадила нам віддати дитину в садочок, адже їй потрібно зростати серед однолітків. Ми з дружиною вирішили, що це не підходить, а тоді теща заявила, що більше не доглядатиме за нашою дитиною, бо втомлена і не має сил.

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