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My Husband and Daughter Always Ignored Me, So I Silently Walked Away. Then They Started Panicking…

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My husband and daughter always ignored me, so I left quietly. Then they started to panic…

My name is Mary. Im thirty years old, I work as a clerk at an identification company, and until recently, I believed my life with my husband Marcus and his daughter Lily was the “new family” I had always dreamed of.

Marcus is nine years older than me. He was divorced when we met, raising Lily alone after his ex-wife gave up custody and vanished. Lily was twelve thenstylish, with bright eyes and surprisingly polite when Marcus first introduced us.

“Nice to meet you. Im Lily. Thanks for always looking after Dad.”
Her cheerful demeanour eased my nerves. Id braced myself for rejection, but she seemed genuinely happy I was around.

I thought: *Shes alone, without a mother. Maybe I can be that person.*

A year later, Marcus proposed. My parents hesitatedwho wouldnt, when the man already had a child?but eventually, convinced by my determination, they gave their blessing. I married Marcus and moved into the flat he shared with Lily.

At first, everything was fine. Lily even called me “Mum.” Marcus was affectionate. We had dinners together, watched comedy shows. I thought the story was writing itself.

But as the months passed, cracks appeared.

One evening after dinner, Lily left her plate on the table and sprawled on the sofa with her phone.

“Lily, clear your plate. Youre old enough.”
She rolled her eyes. “Ugh, seriously? Cant you just do it, Mum?”
I froze. “No. Youre in secondary school. You need to learn responsibility.”
“Stop nagging! Youre so annoying.”

Marcus took her side. “Dont be so hard on her, Mary. Shes still a kid. Just tidy it up.”
My face burned. “Im not spoiling her because shes my stepdaughter. I want her to grow up.”

But the seed was planted. After that, Lily resisted every request. Marcus indulged her. Chores, shopping, cleaningslowly, it all became my job.
When I tried to reason”Were a family, we should work together”Marcus dismissed me: “Housework is womens work.” Lily sneered: “Youre such a cold mother.” Though I worked full-time, they treated me like a maid.

Then came the school troubles. Lily was fourteen, preparing for her GCSEs. She was clever but lazy. She wanted to attend a prestigious private sixth form but spent afternoons scrolling through her phone.
“Lily, you need to study. Sixth form will be harder.”
She scoffed. “Shut up. Youre not my real mum.”
Marcus added, “Dont stress her. Shell manage. Shes reliable.”

We argued fiercely. The more I pushed, the colder Marcus grew. Sometimes he came home late, muttering about “work.” I suspected he was avoiding me.
The tension thickened. I considered divorce but waveredwould I disappoint my parents after convincing them this was right?

Then, one morning, everything changed.
“Good morning, Lily. Breakfast is ready.”
She walked past without a word.
“Lily?”
Nothing.

That evening, I called Marcus. “Hey, I want to talk about Lily”
Silence. He didnt even turn his head.

Day after day, they ignored me. Greetings, questions, attempts at conversationnothing. I was invisible. They chatted between themselves, but the moment I spoke, their eyes glazed over.
I cooked, cleaned, did laundrynot even a “thank you.” On weekends, they went out together, leaving me alone in the flat I once called home.

I tried harderLilys favourite spaghetti, Marcuss beer in the fridge. Nothing. The silence pressed in like walls.
I cried in the shower where no one heard. *Why?*

The answer came by chance.

One evening, I came home early and heard voices from the half-open living room door.
Lily giggled. “Mums so clueless. The silent treatment works perfectly. She does everything without complaining.”
Marcus laughed. “Yeah. No more nagging, and she still pays the bills. Shes a useful housemaid.”
Lily exclaimed, “Ill need more money for sixth form. Mum can just work harder! Im youngwhy should I do chores? Its perfect. Lets keep ignoring her.”

My heart pounded. My husband and stepdaughterlaughing at how easily theyd turned me into a servant.

Heat rose in my chest. I bit my lip so hard it bled.
Id never forgive them.

The next morning, I tried once more: “Good morning.”
They ignored me. Lily even clicked her tongue.

After they left, I packed my bags in silence. I took the essentials, locked the door, and left without a note.

I went to my parents. I feared their disappointment. Instead, Mum took my hand, her eyes damp. “Stay as long as you need. It mustve been so hard.”
Dad said sharply, “You did all you could. Thats enough.”

Tears Id held back for months spilled over. For the first time in two years, I felt seen.

Days later, my phone rang. Marcus. Against better judgment, I answered.
“Where the hell are you?” he shouted. “How dare you leave? Youre her motherhave you no shame? Come home now!”
I held the phone away, then spoke calmly. “No, Marcus. Im not coming back. I want a divorce.”
“Dont be ridiculous! Were not divorcing over a little silence!”

She was panickingbecause without me, there was no maid.

Quietly, I said, “Lets divorce. Why were you cheating, by the way?”
Silence. Then: “What what are you talking about?”
But I knew. The mysterious call Id received was from Marcuss mistresss husband. He hadnt been working latehed been dining with her. Sometimes he even took Lily, whod once sighed, “Dads girlfriend is so pretty. I wish she were my mum.”

I cut in. “Ill file for divorce. And by the way, the flat isnt yours. Its mine. Dad bought it before we married, and its in my name. Ive already moved my things and put it up for sale. Your and Lilys belongings? Sent to your parents. Good luck.”

Silence.

Then Marcuss desperate voice: “Mary, please. Im sorry. I love only you. Forgive me.”
But the words washed over me.

“You and Lily didnt want a wife or mother. You wanted a housemaid. Its over.”
I hung up.

My husband and daughter always ignored me, so I left quietly. Then they started to panic…

Part Two

The divorce moved faster than expected once solicitors got involved. The facts were clear: Marcuss affair, his financial recklessness, his treatment of me. His mistresss husband filed his own lawsuit. Drunk on their little “romance,” they were suddenly drowning in legal battles.

Marcus drained my savings paying alimony and compensation. It wasnt enough. He took loans.

Meanwhile, Marcus and Lily were evicted from my flat, which sold within weeks. With the money, I bought a modest apartment near my officequiet, sunny, filled only with things I chose.
Marcus and Lily ended up in a shabby flat across town.

At first, I felt nothing but relief. Then the calls started again.
“Mary, please. Lets reconcile. Lily wants to apologise too.”
But his voice held desperation, not love. He wanted the stability Id once providedmoney, chores, silence.

“No,” I said firmly. “You told me Id be nothing without you. Now you seewithout me, youre nothing.”
I hung up.

Months passed.

I heard snippets from acquaintances. Marcuss debts grew. Lily went to a state sixth form instead of the private one shed bragged about. At first, she acted superior, but her arrogance isolated her. Friends drifted away. She spent more time at home. Neighbours complained about the smell from their flat.

One day, Marcus called again, his voice broken.
“Mary, please. I cant do this. Lily wont leave her room. She screams at me. The place is a mess. Theyre threatening to evict us. Please come back. For Lily, if not for me.”

A pang of sadness hit me. Once, Id wanted to be Lilys mother. Id tried.
But then I heard her voice: *”The silent treatment works perfectly. Mums so clueless.”*
Shed mocked me to her dad, treated me like rubbish.

“No,” I said. “You made this bed. Lie in it.”
“Mary”
I hung up again.

The divorce was final. The settlement paid. Papers signed.
I blocked

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