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My Parents Forced Me to Have an Abortion to Avoid Shame—They Didn’t Care That Doctors Later Diagnosed Me as Infertile, but Fate Ultimately Dealt My Father a Harsh Blow
I was young when I met that scoundrel. He treated me wonderfully, showering me with compliments and acting like the perfect gentleman. But once he got what he wanted, he vanished from my life. Our breakup left me devastated, but I had no idea at the time what the true consequences of our relationship would be. I was completely shocked when I found out I was pregnant. At first, I didn’t tell a soul. But as my pregnancy became harder and harder to hide, especially since I was already four months along, I made the difficult decision to tell my mum. She immediately told my dad. All I received from him were accusations and harsh words.
Fearing disgrace, my parents pressured me to have an abortion, even though it posed risks to my health. Reluctantly, I agreed, but in the days that followed I wept bitterly, overwhelmed by the feeling that I had betrayed my own child. I still seek forgiveness from God for what I did. My life seemed to come to a standstill. I wanted to die. And my parents remained distant and cold. Their only concern was for the family’s good name.
I made up my mind to get away from their house, and managed to do so within two years. I finished university and built a successful career for myself.
Eventually, I achieved everything I used to only dream about. But there was one thing that all my wealth still couldnt buy: a family. That was the one thing missing. I had long since lost the chance to become a mother. I dated men, had marriage proposals, but whenever they learned about my infertility, they disappeared without a word. My parents are to blame for all of it. They robbed me of the chance to know the joys of motherhood. I wanted nothing to do with them, didn’t even want to see them. When my father had a heart attack and my mother begged me to care for him, I refused. They had betrayed me. To ease my conscience, I send them money every month. I believe parents should support their children, not turn away from them in times of need. My parents never realised just how much harm they were doing.
