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My Son and His Wife Gifted Me a Flat When I Retired: They Handed Me the Keys, Took Me to the Solicitor, and Told Me to Let It Out—A Retirement Bonus I Never Expected
My son and his wife gave me a flat when I retired
On that day, my son and daughter-in-law arrived with a beaming smile, handed me a set of keys, and then took me straight to the solicitors office. I was so overwhelmed, I could barely speak, just managed to whisper,
Why on earth are you giving me such an extravagant gift? You know I dont need this!
Its a little retirement bonus for you, Mum. You can rent this place out if you like! my son told me.
At the time, Id not even dealt with the pension office! Id only just finished my last shift at work before stepping into retirement, and yet here they were, having sorted everything for me without a word. I tried to protest, but they insisted that I shouldnt argue about it.
I must admit, my relationship with my daughter-in-law, Emily, hadnt always been smooth sailing; sometimes wed get on perfectly well, and out of the blue, a big row would kick off. Sometimes it was me, sometimes it was herboth of us guilty. We had to spend quite a bit of time learning not to quarrel and how to see eye to eye. Thankfully, for the past few years, weve found some peace with each other.
When my sister-in-law heard about the gift, she rang immediately to congratulate me, then went on to praise herself: Well, I must have raised my daughter right, if shes happy for you to get a place like that! She added that she, personally, wouldnt have accepted such a gift and would have passed it on to her grandson instead.
That night, sleep was hard to come by. I found myself worrying whether Id manage on just my pension, since I really dont need much. In the morning, I called for my grandson, Oliver, and gently tried to feel out if hed mind having the flat for himself. Hes nearly sixteen now, soon to start university, and hell want his own space eventually. He certainly cant take a girl home to his parents house!
Dont fret, Nan! Oliver said cheerfully. Id rather stand on my own two feet and earn my living myself!
In the end, everyone refused the flatmy daughter-in-law, my grandson, even my son.
I remembered something that happened to my elder sister: her sister-in-law once gave away her home and later had to move into a council estate, clinging to that small room as if it were a lifeline.
And our uncle Hes been gone over fifteen years now, but his heirs still cant get along. Theyve never been able to divide his estate without a battle.
I even once watched a TV programme about a family where parents left their house to their son; as soon as he got it, he evicted his own mum and dad and sold the place, leaving his parents out on the street.
I cried that morning I dont know if it was out of gratitude or pride for my family. After sorting things at the Pension Service, I learnt my pension was two thousand pounds, and then my son arranged to let my flat for three thousand pounds a month. Right then, I realised how truly splendid the gift from my children wassuch generosity is rare.
Life has a way of surprising you and teaching you to appreciate the kindness thats given, without looking for a reason. Sometimes, blessings come when you least expect them, and the greatest gifts arent things you acquire, but the love and thoughtfulness behind them.
