З життя
Неймовірний випадок з таксистом, що вразив мене до глибини душі.
На днях я викликала таксі, і за мною приїхала людина, яка вразила мене до глибини душі. Вразила настільки, що вже другий день всім про нього розповідаю: сідаю в машину, водій усміхається, а я займаюся своїми справами в телефоні.
– Вам не надмірно прохолодно?
– Ні, дякую, усе добре.
– Чи не змерзли ви?
– Ні, справді, все чудово.
– Хочете цукерок? Я щойно купив їх у магазині. Такі смачні! Желейні просто обожнюю. Хоча зазвичай не пропоную пасажирам, це може бути нетактовно. Але вам захотілося. Я зрозумію, якщо відмовитеся. Хочете?
– Хочу!
Він віддав мені цілу коробку. Я пожартувала, що тепер знаю, чому у нього такий високий рейтинг. Зупинилися на світлофорі, повз машину бігали продавці з квітами.
– Любите квіти?
– Люблю.
Зупинив продавців, купив мені букет.
Я була від цього в захопленні – так приємно їхати, усміхаючись. Поки намагаюся зрозуміти, що відбувається, бо ще зранку була сонною. Заговорили про дітей. У нього дочка навчається на другому курсі університету в Польщі. І тут він говорить фразу, від якої моя щелепа ледве не впала:
«От знаєте, Зоя, я просто кайфую від того, що в мене є дитина, дружина, робота. Мене це справді тішить. От дзвонить дочка, просить кошти на якісь речі. Ну, вона ж у Польщі, сумує. А я поповнюю їй картку, і так добре на душі стає. Просто кайф! Що я вдалося щось добре для дитини своєї зробити. Уявляю, як вона собі щось там купляє, або піцу замовляє з друзями – на все вистачає. І мені від цього так тепло.
А ще знаєте, коли дружину відвожу на манікюр (на секундочку, так?), я розраховуюсь сам. І від цього також кайфую! Вона ж мені потім цей манікюр ще два тижні показуватиме й усміхатиметься. І мені від цього так добре, навіть не уявляєте. Я ж сім’ї щось добре зробив! І від цього на душі так тепло».
На цьому етапі я вже забула про усі вхідні у своєму телефоні.
«А ще знаєте, так мало щасливих людей на вулицях! Дивлюся на перехожих — ледь бачу усміхнених людей. Усі такі похмурі й стурбовані. Ви взагалі перша, хто мені усміхнувся за останні декілька днів.
Зустрів недавно знайомих. У них двоє дітей — у першому й третьому класах. Вони скаржаться, як це дорого — зібрати дітей до школи, купити все необхідне, підручники, форму, курси…”
Я запропонував рішення. Знаєте яке?
Сказав, нехай йдуть у найближчий дитячий будинок і віддадуть туди дітей, якщо вони для них – проблема. І не буде у вас проблем ані зі школою, ані з підручниками. Вони у відповідь — “ні, ну як це… так не можна… ми ж їх любимо, це ж наші діти…”
Ну от ваші діти — значить, дякуйте за те, що Бог послав здорових, живих, красивих дітей. Багато людей мріють про це і готові на все заради цього, а у вас це вже є. Подарунок долі.
Любіть їх — робіть усе для них. І робіть так, щоб вони про це “все” навіть не дізнавалися. Не любите — віддайте до дитячого будинку. Чого ви скаржитеся?
Такі щасливі люди, а зовсім свого щастя не помічають. І у більшості так, правда?…”
Він далі ще щось розповідав. Я мовчала, слухала (це рідко буває), і в голові крутилися фрази “оплачую манікюр дружині і кайфую”, “роблю щось для дитини і кайфую”.
Зрозуміла, що цей водій не підприємець, не інвестор, не політик. Він не входить у жодний ТОП 100 чоловіків, як багато моїх знайомих. Його немає на обкладинках. Інтерв’ю з ним не знімають. Він навіть не заробляє стільки, скільки я.
Але в ньому більше життя, ніж у всіх інших! Любові, світла — справжнього, не телевізійного! — більше, ніж у всіх людей, яких я коли-небудь зустрічала. Взагалі. Я дивилася на чоловіків з мого оточення і думала, що це нормально.
Бути завжди з кислим обличчям (бо ж ти у великому бізнесі), або не усміхатися, бути завжди зайнятим і незадоволеним, не вміти кайфувати, або казати жінкам «ооо, знову на свої салони гроші витягуєш з мене», або ставитися до життя, як до боротьби та випробування.
Я вийшла з машини з квітами, цукерками і в супроводі 100500 компліментів. Цікаво, він так масштабує свій світ на всіх людей? Я вийшла і зрозуміла, що мені прям ясно! Такий великий урок. І таке космічне ставлення до життя.
Я таких інсайтів та просвітлення після тренінгів ніколи не отримувала. Учитель поруч!
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DO I REMEMBER? I CAN’T FORGET! “Polly, listen… Remember my illegitimate daughter, Anastasia?” My husband spoke in riddles, making me uneasy. “Do I remember? I can’t forget! Why?” I sat down, bracing for bad news. “Well… Anastasia is begging us to take in her daughter—my granddaughter,” he mumbled. “And why on earth should we, Alex? Where’s Anastasia’s husband? Disappeared into thin air?” I was intrigued. “The thing is, Anastasia doesn’t have much time left. She never had a husband. Her mother remarried and lives in America. They’re estranged, and she has no other family. That’s why she’s asking…” Alex couldn’t meet my eyes. “So, what’s your plan?” I had already decided. “Well, I’m asking you, Polly. Whatever you say, that’s what we’ll do,” he finally looked at me. “How convenient. You made mistakes in your youth, and now I’m to shoulder the burden of a stranger’s child? Isn’t that right?” My husband’s feebleness made me furious. “Polly, we’re a family. We should decide together,” Alex pushed back. “Oh, you remembered now! Yet, when you fooled around, did you consult me? I’m your wife!” Tears welled up and I stormed out… In school, I dated a boy named Peter, until a new boy, Alex, arrived and swept me off my feet. I broke up with Peter. Alex noticed me, walked me home, kissed my cheek, and picked flowers for me. A week later, he led me to his bed. I didn’t protest—I fell head over heels for Alex. After we graduated, he went off to serve in the army in another city. We wrote to each other for a year. Then Alex returned on leave. I was overjoyed. He promised we’d marry when he came back for good—already considered me his wife. His sweet words melted me every time, even years later: one loving look from Alex, and I’d melt like chocolate in the sun. Alex went back to the army. I waited, confident I was a betrothed bride. Six months later, a letter arrived: Alex had found “real love” in his garrison town and wasn’t coming back. But I was already carrying Alex’s baby. So much for a wedding—just as my gran warned me. When the time came, I gave birth to my son, Ivan. Peter, my old boyfriend, stepped in to help. Desperate, I accepted. Yes, Peter and I became intimate. I’d long given up hope of seeing Alex again. Then he turned up, surprised to see Peter there. “Can I come in?” Alex asked. “Come on in, since you’re here,” Peter reluctantly allowed. Sensing the tension, Ivan clung to Peter, wailing. “Peter, why don’t you take Ivan for a walk?” I was at a loss. When they left, Alex asked, “Is he your husband?” “What’s it to you? Why are you here?” I was angry and confused. “I missed you. I see you’ve made a life with Peter—you didn’t wait for me. Well, I’ll go—sorry to intrude on your happy family,” he said, heading for the door. “Wait, Alex. Why have you come—just to hurt me? Peter helps me cope with loneliness. He’s been raising your two-year-old son, by the way,” I tried to keep him there. My love for him hadn’t died. “I’ve come back for you, Polly. Will you have me?” Alex asked, hope in his voice. “Come in, dinner’s ready,” my heart leapt—he came back, so he hadn’t forgotten. Why resist? Peter was shoved aside. My Ivan needed his real father. Later, Peter married a lovely woman with two children. A few years passed. Alex could never love Ivan as his own—he was convinced Ivan was Peter’s son. Alex never really cared for Ivan. He always had an eye for the ladies. He was forever chasing after women, easily smitten, just as easily moving on—including some of my own friends. I cried but kept loving him, determined to hold my family together. It was easier for me than for him—the one who loves is always blinded by hope. I never needed to lie or invent excuses; I just loved him. He was my sun. Sometimes I wanted to leave, but then I’d scold myself: Where would I go, who could compare? Besides, Alex would be lost without me. I was wife, lover, and mother to him. Alex lost his own mother at fourteen—she died in her sleep. Maybe that’s why he always looked for lost affection elsewhere. I forgave everything. Once, after a bitter argument, I threw him out. He moved in with his relatives. Months passed—I forgot why we argued—but he didn’t return. At last, I went to his family’s house. His aunt was surprised to see me. “Polly, why do you want Alex? He said you’d divorced—he has a new girlfriend now.” I found out where she lived and paid them a visit. “Hello! Could I see Alex, please?” I asked politely. She just smirked and slammed the door in my face. I left in silence. A year later, Alex came back. By then the girl had given birth to his daughter, Anastasia. To this day, I blame myself for throwing him out—maybe that girl wouldn’t have scooped him up otherwise. I tried harder to please and adore Alex. We never talked about his illegitimate daughter. It seemed if we did, our family would fall apart. We let sleeping dogs lie. After all, what’s one stray child? It happens. I blamed the “temptresses” instead. In time, Alex settled down. Flings ended. He stayed home watching TV. Our son married early, gave us three grandkids. Then, out of nowhere… Anastasia, Alex’s daughter from long ago, reappeared—asking us to take in her daughter. How would I explain a new little girl to Ivan? He never knew about his father’s youthful escapades. In the end, we took legal guardianship of five-year-old Alina. Anastasia passed away, gone at thirty. Graves grow over with grass, but life goes on. Alex spoke to Ivan man-to-man. After hearing his father’s confession, Ivan said, “What’s done is done, you don’t answer to me. But the girl should stay—she’s family.” Alex and I breathed easier. We’d raised a kind son. Now, Alina is sixteen. She adores her Grandpa Alex, whispers secrets to him, calls me Granny, and says she’s my spitting image at her age. I never argue…
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