З життя
Свекруха вирішила оселитися у мене, а своє житло віддати дочці.
Свекруха вирішила поселитися в моєму помешканні, а своє віддати доньці.
Мій чоловік виріс у великій сім’ї. Свекруха народжувала дітей доти, доки у неї не з’явилася донька. Химерна тактика, але не мені судити.
Коли я вийшла заміж, думала, що мені пощастило. Віктор здавався відповідальним, сміливим і сильним. Він розумів, що таке сім’я, але не міг відірватися від матері й сестри. Хоча свекруха не надто турбувалася про синів, благополуччя доньки завжди було на першому місці.
Оленці було 10 років, коли ми познайомилися. Спочатку вона мені не заважала, але через п’ять років ситуація погіршилася. Вона не хотіла вчитися, мала сумнівних друзів, а мій чоловік змушений був допомагати у її вихованні. Свекруха могла подзвонити вночі й викликати його на допомогу.
Я сподівалася, що Оленка виросте, вийде заміж і все налагодиться. Але стало навпаки! Коли вона знайшла собі хлопця, свекруха наказала братам скластися на організацію весілля, бо в неї не було грошей. Наречений Оленки був із не дуже багатої сім’ї, тому молодята мали жити із свекрухою.
Проте вона зрозуміла, що їм важко жити разом. Дійшла до чудової ідеї: переїхати до нас, а доньці віддати своє житло. Але ж я купила цю нерухомість за свої тяжко зароблені гроші, і мій чоловік не вклав ані копійки. Найцікавіше, що він теж задоволений цим варіантом, заявляючи, що мама полегшить нам обов’язки.
У нас трикімнатна квартира, але я не хочу жертвувати комфортом і ділити з кимось життєвий простір. Свекруха впевнена, що ми повинні її прийняти, бо мій чоловік – старший син, який має дбати про благополуччя батьків.
Я кохаю чоловіка й не розглядаю варіант розлучення. Але як з ним поговорити? Як пояснити, що життя з його мамою – це пекло? Може, у вас є якась порада?
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