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У понеділок мій старший брат приїхав з-за кордону з повними валізами одягу для батьків.
У понеділок приїхав мій старший брат з Америки. Привіз батькам всілякі речі. Мати застелила стіл, перед основною стравою приготувала різні закуски. Клопоталася біля невістки, пропонувала й подавала все найкраще. Андрій з дружиною, повернувшись, почали відвідувати родичів, усі заздрили їм і захоплювалися. Після обіду брат поїхав, взявши конверт з грошима, які їм дав батько. Брат тільки-но вийшов, як атмосфера в домі зіпсувалася; почалися нарікання, просили мою дружину, щоб подала чай, а батько став скаржитися, що так багато снігу, що важко пройти.
Лідія кип’ятила воду для чаю, а я розчистив сніг і відчував сум. Продовжую жити з батьками, які ніколи не оцінюють. Останні десять років я з дружиною та двома синами живу в одному домі з батьками. Мама давно не працює, батько теж. Вони дбають про себе. Як тільки вийшли на пенсію, почали турбуватися про здоров’я: мати не вийде в сад, бо сонце надто яскраве вдень, а ввечері – комарі. Ліда і я робимо все по дому.
Андрій приїжджає дуже рідко, тоді батьки стають зовсім іншими, оживають, забувають про свої недуги, метушаться навколо своїх онуків. Щороку розумію, що зробив велику помилку, залишившись з батьками. Завжди більше поважають тих, хто далеко, а той, хто поруч і допомагає у всьому, ніколи не цінується. Можливо, варто покинути батьків, купити будинок у селі і жити власним життям? Але зараз у нас таких грошей немає, а Лідія і я вклали стільки сил і коштів у батьківську домівку. Дійсно потребую підтримки, що тепер робити?
В понеділок приїхав мій старший брат з Америки. Привіз батькам різне вбрання. Мати накрила на стіл, перед основною стравою приготувала різні закуски. Клопоталася біля невістки, пропонувала і подавала все найкраще. Андрій і його дружина, повернувшись, почали відвідувати родичів, усі заздрили їм і захоплювалися. Після обіду Андрій поїхав, узявши конверт з грошима, які їм дав батько. Брат щойно вийшов, і настрій у домі відразу зіпсувався; почалися нарікання, просили мою дружину подати чай, а батько скаржився, що стільки снігу, важко пройти.
Лідія кип’ятила воду для чаю, а я розчистив сніг і був засмучений, бо живу далі з невдячними батьками.
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