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Зрада до весілля: чому вона вдягла іншу сукню?
Юлія зрадила своєму майбутньому чоловіку лише раз, ще до весілля. Він назвав її гладкою і сказав, що вона не влізе у весільну сукню. Вона образилася і поїхала з подругами до клубу. Напилася там і прокинулася в незнайомій квартирі з блакитнооким красенем. Було жахливо соромно! Вона нічого не сказала Миколі, одразу вибачила йому всі образи і навіть сіла на дієту. Кинула пити, добре хоч дізналася скоро про вагітність, тому була причина відмовитися.
Донька народилася вчасно, прекрасна блакитноока дівчинка, Микола нею дуже пишався. Усі п’ять років Юлія запевняла себе, що все добре, і очі в доньки блакитні, бо у свекра такі ж. Ну, кучерява вона, і що з того? Старалася витіснити з пам’яті того кучерявого хлопця, ім’я якого навіть не пам’ятала. Але щось у глибині материнського серця підказувало їй, що дівчинка не від чоловіка. Може, тому вона й вибачала йому все: нічні переписки, часті відрядження, вічне невдоволення її зовнішністю та кулінарією. Доньці потрібна сім’я: батька вона обожнює, та й які чоловіки не зраджують?
-Терпіння, куди ти підеш? – казала мама. – У нас, самі знаєте, місця немає, бабуся занедужала, брат привів наречену, куди я вас усіх? Говорила тобі: не можна квартиру на свекруху оформляти, будеш потім біля розбитого корита!
Юлія й терпіла. Тільки ось це не допомогло, і одного разу Микола все ж пішов від неї. Сказав, що зустрів іншу, плакав навіть, говорив, що завжди буде для Аліси батьком, але проти своїх почуттів піти не може. Мати його, яка внучку начебто любила, після розлучення висловила:
-Зроби тест на батьківство, а то, може, дарма аліменти платиш!
Юлія відчула холодок всередині: вона думала, що у неї однієї такі підозри. Виявляється, ні.
-Ти схибнулася? – накинувся на неї Микола. – Аліса – моя донька, це й сліпий побачить.
Не дарма свекруха підозрювала, бо коли через рік після розлучення Юлія потрапила до лікарні з апендицитом і побачила там знайоме обличчя, її сумніви розвіялися відразу в цих блакитних очах над білою маскою.
-Пробачте, а ми з вами не зустрічалися? – запитав хірург.
Юлія заперечливо замотала головою. І сподівалася, що він не згадає. Але він згадав, тому що наступного дня на обході пожартував:
-Сподіваюся, ви не втечете так стрімко, як минулого разу?
Юлія запашіла, як помідор. І вирішила для себе, що піде з лікарні за першої ж можливості. Тільки ось одного вона не врахувала: за ті дні, що вона там була, Максим встиг зробити так, що втікати Юлії не захотілося.
Про доньку вона нічого не сказала, точніше, сказала, що є донька, але про його батьківство і натяку не було.
Максим все зрозумів сам, у перший же день, коли побачив дівчинку. Він хвилювався, купив ляльку, задав Юлі десятки питань, щоб правильно себе поводити.
-Ти розумієш, – сказав він, – коли ми з сестрою були маленькі, мама зустріла чоловіка, і вона справді його любила, але сестра моя його не прийняла, і мама, зрештою, відмовила йому. Не хочу так, хочу бути для твоєї доньки другим батьком.
Від цих слів Юлії стало не по собі. А коли він увійшов і побачив дівчинку, завмер на кілька секунд, і розгублено подивився на Юлію, стало ясно: він теж усе зрозумів.
«Яка різниця, – подумала Юлія. – Усе одно рано чи пізно довелося б йому сказати».
Навчена своїм шлюбом, вона чекала звинувачень і криків. Але Максим, коли вони залишилися наодинці, міцно обійняв її і прошепотів: «Яке ж це диво!».
Спочатку Аліса ніби нормально приймала Максима. Але коли Юлія обережно запитала у доньки, чи не проти вона, якщо Максим житиме з ними, вона заплакала і сказала:
-Я думала, що татко до нас повернеться! Нехай Максим у іншому домі живе.
Нарешті Юлія її вмовила, але Максим сильно засмучувався.
-Вона ж моя донька! Ти повинна їм сказати!
-Микола цього не переживе. І Аліса. Ти зрозумій, для неї він – тато, а для Миколи вона – єдина донька. Здається, його дамочка не може мати дітей. Так мені свекруха сказала.
Максим ображався, Аліса влаштовувала скандали, Юлія з усіх сил намагалася підтримувати мир у їхній дивній родині. У результаті у них склалися певні правила, завдяки яким вдавалося лавірувати між двома улюбленими людьми: до Миколи вона возила доньку сама, намагаючись, щоб чоловіки не зустрічалися, Алісу з Максимом одних не залишала, а то вони неодмінно сварилися, служила ніби перекладачем між ними. Навіть на Восьме березня вона готувала з Алісою листівку, боялася, що та висловить щось Максиму, а він не витримає і скаже їй правду.
А потім Юлія завагітніла. І дуже злякалася. Вона боялася, що друга дитина буде схожа на Алісу, як дві краплі води, і Микола все зрозуміє; боялася, що Аліса буде ревнувати і сердитися на Максима ще більше; боялася, що Максим скористається ситуацією, поки вона буде в пологовому, і все розповість Алісі.
Домовилася з мамою, що та візьме Алісу на час пологів. Мама погодилась, хоча у неї і так вдома двоє дітей (брат встиг її онуками обдарувати), але все вийшло навпаки: за день до пологів у Юлії мама потрапила до лікарні з камінням у жовчному. Вітчим взяти на себе третю дитину відмовився, брат і його дружина цілими днями на роботі. І Юлія вирішила відвезти доньку до Миколи. Але ось дурниця: той був у відрядженні, а звертатися до свекрухи зовсім не хотілося.
-Я що, з власною донькою не впораюся? – образився Максим.
Ці пологи були куди складнішими для Юлії: мало того, що довелося робити кесарів розтин, потім затриматися в лікарні, тому що у сина була жовтяниця, так ще й вдома бомба уповільненої дії! Максим стверджував, що все добре, а донька відмовлялася з нею говорити, і Юлія дуже переживала. «Він усе їй розповів, – думала вона».
Ще, навіщо-то, поділилася своєю історією із сусідками, а ті давай запевняти, що треба всім розповісти, що таємне завжди стає явним, і Юлія чекає спокути за брехню. Нервова після родів і занадто відкрита через окситоцин, вона зателефонувала Миколі і сказала:
-Мені потрібно тобі зізнатися.
-У чому?
Довго мовчала, збиравшись із думками.
-Ти про Алісу, чи що?
-Що про Алісу? – злякалася Юлія, хоча сама збиралася все йому розповісти.
-Те, що вона від твого коханця. Я знаю.
-Він що, сказав тобі? – здивувалася Юлія.
-Та я давно у курсі, заспокойся. Їй рік був, коли я тест зробив. Мені ще перед армією говорили, що дітей у мене не буде. Я мовчав, сподівався на диво і думав, от воно. А потім сумніватися почав. Мама ще… От і перевірив.
-Та… Як…
Юлія не могла укласти в голові те, що він усі ці роки мовчав.
-Що мені було робити? – роздратовано сказав він. – Дівчина в чому винна? І не думай їй сказати! Я стільки терпів не для того, щоб ти мене без дитини залишила.
От і Юріїв день!
На виписці Юлія була сама не своя: усе дивилася то на доньку, то на чоловіка. Обидва вели себе дивно: поглядали один на одного і мовчали.
-Ну, як ви без мене? – запитала нервово Юлія, коли син заснув, а Аліса сіла малювати.
-Та все добре! Задарма ти її вічно оберігала, без тебе ми одразу порозумілися.
-Ти їй сказав?
-Ні, звісно! Ти ж заборонила.
-Заборонила. А чого вона тоді така похмура?
Максим хитро посміхнувся.
-А от спитай сама.
Юлія пішла в кімнату до доньки. Та аж язик від усердя висунула: фарбувала щось червоним олівцем. Юлія підійшла ближче і розгледіла. На малюнку було троє дорослих і двоє дітей.
-Це хто? – запитала вона.
-Невже не зрозуміло? Ти, татко, Максим і ми з Вадимком.
-Гарно.
-Ага. Мамо! А як ти думаєш – чи може у людини бути двоє тат?
«Так і є – сказав!»
-Ну… Трапляється таке, – обережно відповіла вона.
-Тоді можна я буду Максима теж татком називати? Він хороший. Ми з ним замок із лего будували і ходили дивитися на рибок. Там такий смішний продавець, дідусь у кепчику. Він запитав, ким працює мій тато. А я не знала, що відповісти, адже він про Максима запитав. І я сказала, що лікар. Це ж класно, коли тато – лікар. Я у нього вже запитала але вирішила у тебе уточнити.
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-Звичайно, можна. Думаю, Максим буде радий, якщо ти будеш називати його татком. Але татові краще не кажи…
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“Don’t You Dare Touch My Mother’s Things,” Said My Husband — “Those Clothes Belong to My Mum. Why Did You Pack Them Away?” My Husband’s Voice Was Strange, Almost Unfamiliar “We’re throwing them out. Why keep them, Steve? They take up half the wardrobe, and I need space for winter blankets and spare pillows—everything’s scattered everywhere,” I replied, continuing to briskly remove modest blouses, skirts, and light dresses that belonged to my late mother-in-law. Valentina always hung her clothes so neatly, and she managed to pass that habit on to her son. Unlike me—with my usual wardrobe chaos and desperate morning hunts for something presentable, ending up ironing crumpled tops that looked like they’d been chewed up and spat out by a cow. It had only been three weeks since Steve said a final goodbye to his mother. She needed treatment—mostly palliative—and peace and quiet. The cancer was merciless in its speed. So she came to stay with us, fading away within the month. Now, coming home after work, Steve saw her things strewn mid-corridor like worthless junk and just froze. Was this it? Is that all his mother deserved—tossed out and so quickly forgotten? “Why are you looking at me like I’m some enemy of the people?” I retorted, stepping aside. “Do not touch these things.” His words came through gritted teeth, his face darkening dangerously; he briefly lost sensation in his hands and feet as anger rushed to his head. “For goodness’ sake, they’re just old clothes!” I shot back, my patience thin. “What do you want, a museum? She isn’t here anymore, Steve. You have to accept that. Maybe if you’d cared for her this much when she was alive, maybe visited more, you’d have known how ill she really was!” Those words hit him, hard. “Leave, before I do something I regret,” Steve managed, his breathing ragged. I snorted. “Fine. Suit yourself.” Anyone who disagreed with me must be crazy—or so I’d decided. Steve didn’t even take off his shoes as he headed for the hallway cupboard, flinging open the very top doors and hauling down one of our old checkered bags from the move—there were about seven of them. He packed all of Valentina’s belongings inside—not just stuffing, but folding each one carefully. Her jacket and a bag of shoes went on top. Our three-year-old son whirled around his father, “helping” by throwing his toy tractor into the bag. Steve hunted out a key from a drawer and pocketed it. “Daddy, where are you going?” He managed a tight smile. “I’ll be back soon, mate. Go find Mummy.” “Wait!” I called. “Are you leaving? Where are you going? What about dinner?” “No need, I’ve lost my appetite for your attitude towards my mother.” “Oh come on, are you really upset over nothing? Where do you think you’re going this late?” Not looking back, Steve left with the bag. He drove around the ring road, letting the roar of tyres drown his thoughts—work, holidays, even his favourite Facebook jokes—everything faded away except the heavy ache of loss and the accusation that maybe he’d failed his mum when she needed him most. She’d never wanted to bother him, never wanted to be a burden, and he’d started calling less, visiting less, always busy, always something else to do. Halfway there, he stopped at a roadside café, grabbed a quick bite, and drove the remaining three hours in silence. He barely noticed the sunset, just the faint memory of his childhood home drawing nearer. He arrived late, fumbled at the garden gate with his phone torch, ignoring five missed calls from me. The scent of fading bird-cherry blossom hung thick in the dark. Inside, Valentina’s old slippers waited in the porch, her house shoes by the inner door—blue and worn, with little red bunnies, a present from Steve years ago. He stood, staring, and finally entered his mother’s world for one last time. Everything was just as she’d left it—neat, a little damp-smelling, the furniture faded. Her makeup and comb, a packet of pasta marked ‘basic price’, the newer settee and telly he’d bought her, and in her room the bed piled with pillows. Steve sank onto the edge. He remembered sharing the room with his late brother, the old table by the window, now replaced with Valentina’s cherished sewing machine; her wardrobe now holding her lifetime’s treasures. The house was silent. Steve pressed his face into his knees, shook, and sobbed—he’d never found the right words to thank her; he’d sat dumb as she squeezed his hand, thousands of things left unsaid. He wished he could thank her for his safe childhood, her sacrifices, the sense of home you could always come back to, where mistakes didn’t matter and love was unconditional. But nothing he could say now felt real—our modern world, he thought, was quick with sarcasm, but never had the words for gratitude or grief. He left everything just as it was and finally slept, waking at seven as always. The morning was cool and fresh, the birch trees glowing outside the old garden fence. Steve carried the bag of his mother’s things upstairs and put everything back in its place with gentle care. He called work: “Family emergency, I’ll be back tomorrow.” He even sent me a text—apologising for his temper. After picking early tulips, daffodils and lilies of the valley, he made three small bouquets—one for each of his loved ones at the cemetery. Stopping at the shop, the old shopkeeper fussed over him, offering cheese; Steve bought some, just as his mum once did. At the grave, Steve shared breakfast—with his father, his brother, and his mum—laying out chocolate and cheese in silent tribute. He spoke to them in his mind, remembered childhood mischief with his brother, early morning fishing trips with his dad, his mum’s echoing call for dinner that he’d once found so embarrassing. He stroked the fresh earth of his mum’s grave. “Mum, I’m sorry… It shouldn’t feel this empty without you. So much I wish I’d said. You were the best parents anyone could ask for. Thank you—for everything. We’re selfish, me and Olya; you were never like that. Thank you, Vasya, too, little brother.” It was time to go. On the way, Steve met old Serge, drunk as ever, declaring it World Turtle Day. Steve looked at him, weary. “Look after your mother, mate. She’s gold, and she won’t be around forever.” And so, with that, Steve walked on—leaving his friend in the dust, and carrying his mother’s memory home.
Dont you dare touch my mothers things, said her husband. These clothes belong to my mum. Why have you packed...