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Син скасував весілля через складні стосунки з майбутньою тещею.

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На весілля моєму синові не судилося, бо його не влаштувала майбутня теща.

Ми готувалися до свята весілля. Син вирішив зв’язати свою долю з однокурсницею. Але після того, як він побував у дівчини вдома, оголосив, що весілля не буде, бо його вразила поведінка тещі.

Роман з Оксаною зустрічалися більше року. Вони навіть разом знімали квартиру неподалік від університету. Наречену сина я бачила лише один раз, і то випадково. А Роман не знайомий був з її батьками. Тому Оксана запросила Романа до себе познайомитися з мамою та татом.

Коли син повідомив, що зробив пропозицію Оксані, ми з чоловіком були неймовірно щасливі. Я, як мама, відчувала його радість і з нетерпінням чекала на весілля. Але ця подія так і не сталася.

За кілька тижнів до весілля Роман зустрівся з мамою Оксани. І саме ця зустріч змусила його змінити своє рішення.

Знайомство з майбутньою тещею почалося не найкращим чином. Наталя Володимирівна, так звали тещу, відразу запитала, чому Роман такий худий. Чи він не доїдає, чи, можливо, хворіє? Як він збирається носити Оксану на руках, адже вона – дівчина в найкращій формі?

Наш Роман дуже вихований і тактовний хлопець, тому змовчав. Хоча, звісно, мав що відповісти. За словами Романа, мама Оксани важила близько 130 кілограмів, тож у порівнянні з нею він справді здавався худим.

Після такої сцени Оксана запросила Романа до кімнати за стіл. За столом Наталя Володимирівна продовжувала свої провокаційні розпити.

– Романе, а скільки ти заробляєш? Чому ви не плануєте подорож після весілля на Ялту? Це мрія моєї дочки, – запитала Наталя Володимирівна, коли почула, що молодята хочуть святкувати скромно.

– Якщо у тебе немає грошей, позич у батьків. Але подорож мусить відбутися. Або, якщо хочеш, візьми у мене під відсотки. Оксана у нас єдина дочка. Чому вона повинна одружуватися без пишності? – не вгавала Наталя Володимирівна.

Мама Оксани, здавалося, спеціально дошкуляла Роману, перевіряючи його терпіння. Коли син збирався додому, теща зазначила, що рада за Оксану. До того у неї були інші хлопці, але жоден не зробив пропозиції.

Після такого знайомства Роман повернувся з поганим настроєм. Він розповів мені про все, що сталося. Визнав, що після цієї зустрічі відмовився від шлюбу.

Ця новина стала для нас несподіванкою, однак краще скасувати весілля заздалегідь. Ми підтримали Романа в цьому рішенні.

Наступного дня він мав пояснити все Оксані. Їхня зустріч була дуже емоційною. Коли Оксана дізналася, що Роман не буде одружуватися, вона розсердилася, називала його боягузом, стверджуючи, що він боїться відповідальності.

Це була їх остання зустріч. Нині Роман усю свою енергію направляє на навчання і роботу. Заробляє він добре, планує взяти квартиру на виплат. Про серйозні стосунки син поки не думає.

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