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Квартира, за яку я платила оренду, належала моєму чоловікові.
Квартира, за яку я платила оренду, належала моєму чоловікові.
Коли Олексій і я одружилися, ми домовилися ділити всі витрати порівну, включаючи оренду. Олексій взяв на себе пошук квартири, сказавши мені, що вона коштує 56,000 гривень на місяць. Вірно, я щомісяця передавала йому свої 28,000 гривень, довіряючи, що він відправляє їх орендодавцеві, як обіцяв.
Щоб покрити свою частину, я працювала на двох роботах. Вранці я працювала в офісі, а ввечері була офіціанткою. Сон був розкішшю, яку я рідко могла собі дозволити, але я вважала, що це варте того. Я відкладала гроші на спільну мрію з Олексієм – колись мати власний будинок. Кожна зміна, кожна виснажлива подвійна зміна, була присвячена нашому майбутньому.
Цілих два роки я думала, що все йде своєю чергою.
Та одна доленосна груднева ніч змінила все.
Поки я застрягла в ліфті з однією з наших сусідок, ми завели випадкову розмову. Тоді вона розповіла те, що змусило моє серце заніміти:
«О, ви живете у квартирі пані Лізи та Олексія, так?»
Пані Ліза. Як, виявляється, мама Олексія.
Збентежена, я запитала про це зауваження. Нічого не знаючи, сусідка розповіла шокуючу правду:
«Так, мама Олексія купила цю квартиру сто років тому! Вона здавала її в оренду, поки він не переїхав із своєю колишньою. А потім ви оселилися!»
Почувши це, моє серце замерзло. Увесь цей час я не сплачувала оренду господареві. Я клала гроші прямо в кишені Олексія та його матері.
Протягом двох років я несвідомо передала їм 672,000 гривень, відмовляючи собі в спокої та доводячи себе до виснаження.
Опинившись удома, я не дала виходу злості. Натомість я спокійно зателефонувала Олексію.
“Привіт, коханий,” почала я, прикидаючись привітною. “Коли нам знову платити оренду?”
“28 грудня,” він відповів безтурботно.
Чудово.
Наступні два тижні я прикидалась — сміялась з його жартів, готувала їжу та підтримувала видимість. Але у таємниці я планувала свій від’їзд.
27 грудня я зібрала необхідні речі, зняла свої заощадження та пішла. Я переїхала до близької подруги, поки вирішувала, що робити далі. Але перед від’їздом я обов’язково стикнулася з Олексієм.
Того вечора я посадила його і прямо запитала: “Чому ти ніколи не згадував, що квартира належить твоїй мамі?”
Його обличчя зблідло. “Що ти маєш на увазі?” він затинався.
“Я все знаю. Ти брав мої гроші і обманював мене. Ніякого ‘орендодавця’ не було, це все йшло в сімейну кишеню. Ти уявляєш, скільки нічних змін я відпрацювала, щоб платити фіктивну оренду?”
Олексій здався — спочатку заперечення, потім виправдання, нарешті вибачення. Жодні його слова не могли залікувати зруйновану довіру.
Наступного ранку я проконсультувалася з юристом і почала процес розлучення. Обговорюючи свою ситуацію, юрист задав важливе питання: “Чи є у вас копія вашого договору оренди?”
Спантеличена, але заінтригована, я почала шукати його. Те, що я виявила, було приголомшливим — договір оренди ніколи не був дійсним.
Олексій підробив угоду про оренду, удаючи, що ми були орендарями. Насправді, ця власність ніколи не була офіційно здана в оренду комусь. Юридично він обдурив мене, беручи гроші під фальшивим приводом.
Озброївшись цим знанням, мій юрист підтвердив, що у нас є міцна справа для судового позову. Відтак, я подала заяву на розлучення та звинувачення у шахрайстві проти Олексія. Суд виніс рішення на мою користь, зобов’язуючи Олексія та його матір повернути всю суму в 672,000 гривень, які я заплатила.
Вийшовши з суду, я відчула, як з моїх плечей знімається тягар. Хоча мене використано та обмануто, я зуміла повернути свою гідність, свої кошти та своє майбутнє.
Цей досвід навчив мене важливого уроку: завжди перевіряйте фінансові домовленості, навіть у шлюбі. Прозорість та чесність є ключовими. І найголовніше, якщо щось здається підозрілим – довіряйте своїм інстинктам і ретельно розберіться.
Ви коли-небудь розкривали фінансову таємницю у стосунках? Будь ласка, діліться своїми досвідом та думками!
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