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My Son Told Me He Bought Me a Country House – But When I Arrived, I Felt the Ground Crumble Beneath My Feet.
My son told me hed bought me a countryside cottagebut when we arrived, the ground fell out from under my feet.
My name is Arthur, and Im 78 years old.
Never thought Id be seeking advice from strangers, but here we are. I need your perspective.
I spent most of my adult life as a single father. My wife, Margaret, passed from cancer when our son, William (now 35), was just ten. It was a tough time for both of us, but we got through it together. After that, it was just the two of us against the world. I worked myself to the bone to give him every opportunitytried to be both mum and dad for him.
William grew into a good lad. Sure, he had his rebellious phases, but mostly, he was kind, hardworking, and seemed level-headed. Did well in school, got into university with a partial scholarship, and after graduating, landed a decent job in finance. Always made me proud, watching him become a proper success. We stayed close even after he moved outregular calls, weekly dinners, the lot.
“Dad,” he said, unable to meet my eyes, “Im sorry. I know I said it was a cottage, but thisll be better for you. Theyll take care of you here.”
“Take care of me? I dont need looking after! Im perfectly fine on my own. Why the bloody lie?”
“Dad, please.” Finally, he looked at me, eyes pleading. “Lately, youve been forgetting things. I worry about you living alone. This place has great facilitiestherell always be someone around if you need help.”
“Forgetting things? Everyone forgets things sometimes!” I snapped, furious tears hot on my cheeks.
“Thats not true, William. Take me home. Now.”
He shook his head and dropped the days real bombshell:
“I cant, Dad. I Ive already sold the house.”
The world tilted beneath me.
I knew Id agreed to sell, but I thought I had time. I wanted to meet the new owners, pick a nice family, explain how to care for the old oak in the garden.
Which is why what happened just over a year ago came as such a shock. It was a Tuesday evening when William turned up at my place, buzzing with excitement.
“Dad,” he said, “brilliant news! Ive bought you a cottage in the countryside!”
“A cottage? William, what on earth are you on about?”
“Its perfect, Dad. Quiet, peacefuljust what you need. Youll love it!”
I was baffled. Move to a house miles away? Seemed a bit much.
“William, you shouldnt have. Im happy here.”
But he wouldnt let it go.
“No, Dad, you deserve this. The house is too big for you now. Time for a change. Trust me, itll do you good.”
Ill admit, I was sceptical. The house had been our family home for over 30 years. William grew up there, Margaret and I built our life there. But he seemed so chuffed, so sure it was the right call. And I trusted him completely.
Wed always been straight with each other.
So, despite my doubts, I agreed to move and sell up. Over the next few days, I packed my things while William handled the details. He assured me everything was sortedso thorough, I let my worries slide.
Then came moving day. As we drove, William waffled on about the new places perks. But the further we got from town, the more uneasy I felt.
The countryside wasnt the idyllic patch Id imaginedno rolling green hills or charming villages. Just bleak, empty fields and the odd derelict farmhouse.
The cottages Margaret and I had once admired were cosy, warm, surrounded by nature. This? Nothing like it.
“William,” I asked, “are we going the right way? This doesnt look like the countryside to me.”
He insisted we were, but wouldnt look me in the eye.
An hour later, we turned down a long, winding lane. At the end stood a grim, towering building. My heart stopped at the sign:
“Sunset Haven.”
Not a cottage. A care home.
