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Швидке кохання і раннє розставання: історія зради після двох дітей
Ми з чоловіком одружилися дуже молодими. Я тільки-но закінчила школу, а Андрій вже мав стабільну роботу і добре забезпечував нашу сім’ю. Для мене його заробіток здавався тоді просто неймовірним. У нас була різниця у віці шість років.
Майже одразу після весілля я народила чоловікові сина. А ще через два роки у нас з’явилася донька. Ми жили у двокімнатній квартирі Андрія. Впоратися з двома дітьми самотужки було, звісно, важко, але мене завжди підтримувала моя свекруха. Я їй за це дуже вдячна. Вона приходила на допомогу саме тоді, коли я її найбільше потребувала, ніби відчувала.
Я була гарною господинею: смачно готувала, у квартирі завжди панувала чистота та затишок. Коли донечці виповнилося два роки, я вийшла на роботу. Працювала нянею в дитячому садку. Зарплата була невеликою, але навіть ці гроші були знахідкою.
З часом я повністю зосередилася на дітях, віддавала їм усі сили і забувала про себе. Мені здається, таку помилку роблять багато мам. Я раділа речам, які мені віддавали родичі, перестала фарбуватися і купувати косметику. Почала помічати, як чоловік став холодним до мене. Часто затримувався на роботі, а вдома ми майже не спілкувалися, дуже віддалилися одне від одного.
Одного дня Андрій прийшов додому і сказав, що зраджував усі ці роки і хоче розлучитися. Це був удар. Я багато плакала. Але одного дня прийшла свекруха і потягла мене до торговельного центру на шопінг. Спершу мені було шкода витрачати гроші на себе, але я зрозуміла, що це необхідно. Ми накупили одягу, косметики, відвідали салон краси. Я знову почала собі подобатися.
Після моїх змін чоловік почав виявляти до мене інтерес. Ми почали налагоджувати стосунки. На щастя, до розлучення справа не дійшла. Все це завдяки моїй улюбленій свекрусі, за що я завжди буду їй вдячна.
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