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Усе почалося з того, що нас запросили його друзі, і я одягнулася так, як люблю.

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Все почалося з того, що нас запросили його друзі, і я вдягнула те, що мені подобається. Мій наречений теж любить, як я вбираюся. Щойно я вийшла з кімнати, свекруха мало не зомліла, побачивши мене. Вона відразу ж наказала зняти сукню і детально пояснила, у що я маю вдягнутися.

Я познайомилася з Петром в Інтернеті. Ми жили у різних містах, але він зразу ж мені сподобався — добрий, ввічливий, вродливий, надійний чоловік. Ми довго спілкувалися у соцмережах, а потім він прийшов до моїх батьків. На той час я щойно закінчила школу, мені виповнилося 18, а йому — 26. Через півроку Петро запропонував мені одружитися, і ми переїхали до його батьків.

Ми поїхали в село, і я відчувала, що мене не дуже гостинно зустрінуть. Ми їхали дуже довго і вийшли з потяга вночі. Дісталися їхнього дому, а вранці прийшла свекруха, дала мені мітлу і сказала:

— Тепер ти господиня в цьому домі, роби все сама. Я прибирала весь будинок, прала їхній одяг, прасувала, готувала. Масажувала її, а крім того, доглядала за своїм майбутнім чоловіком, буквально бігала за ним, як дитина.

Все почалося з того, що нас запросили його друзі, і я вдягнула те, що люблю. Мій наречений теж любить, як я вбираюся. Щойно я вийшла з кімнати, свекруха мало не зомліла, побачивши мене. Вона відразу ж наказала зняти сукню і детально пояснила, у що я маю вдягнутися.

Трохи навіть шкодувала, що вирішила приїхати. Вона постійно вихваляла сина, я не заперечувала, бо вважала, що мій наречений дійсно чудовий, але постійно говорила «мій син, мій син».

Хотілося сказати їй: мамо, прокиньтеся, вашому синові 26 років! Не ставтеся до нього, як до маленького!

Одного вечора, сидячи за столом, вона почала розповідати про попередніх наречених Петра — мовляв, був завидним нареченим. Потім подивилася на мене і сказала, що одна з них була дуже вродлива, ще чарівніша за мене.

— Я йому говорила: візьми її за дружину, але він не захотів, не захотів одружуватися. Я не розумію, чому він тебе вибрав?!

Не люблю вихвалятися, але в школі завжди була авторитетом. Вчителі мене любили і поважали, а навіть після закінчення школи дали моїм батькам диплом за виховання чудової доньки. Я брала участь у всіх шкільних заходах, і все місто мене знало. Зараз продовжую навчання в університеті і паралельно працюю перукаркою.

Але мати Петра постійно зменшує мої досягнення перед своєю родиною. Щоразу йду в іншу кімнату і тихо плачу, бо знаю, що якщо скажу своєму майбутньому чоловікові, що його мати мене ображає, він відповість:

— Про що ти говориш? Моя мати свята, вона не могла такого зробити чи сказати. Викинь це з голови, вона тебе дуже любить. Просто зійдіться з нею і будьте друзями.

За кілька місяців відбудеться моє весілля (заплановане на осінь). А я буду жити зі свекрухою, бо це єдиний син у родині. Що мені робити? Я не можу з нею жити. Моя мама була дуже здивована поведінкою майбутньої свекрухи, єдине, що сказала, це бути терплячою. А що ще можу зробити?

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