З життя
«Заберёшь ли ты меня к себе?» — с обидой спросила мать. Но я знала ответ…
— Ты меня к себе не заберёшь? — с обидой спросила мать. Но ответ я уже знала…
Меня зовут Анастасия. Мне тридцать восемь, и замужем я уже пятнадцать лет. У нас с мужем Дмитрием есть сын, хорошая квартира в Москве и, казалось бы, всё, о чём только можно мечтать. Но одна тема до сих пор болит — это моя мать. А точнее, её война с моим мужем, которая тянется больше десяти лет.
Дима приехал в наш город из маленького посёлка в Вологодской области. Тогда он мечтал поступить в институт, но с первого раза не прошёл и устроился сантехником, чтобы хоть как-то сводить деньги. Жил в общаге, работал, не ныл. Потом всё-таки поступил. Работу не бросил — стал отличным мастером, народ к нему в очередь выстраивался. В институте мы и познакомились. Я была на курс старше, но между нами сразу пробежала искра.
Когда я получила диплом, мы решили расписаться. Но мама была категорически против.
— Сантехник?! Да ты совсем с катушек слетела! Деревенщина, без жилья, без будущего! — кричала она.
Я уговорила её пустить нас пожить в её квартире — ненадолго, пока Дима не закончит учёбу. Мама согласилась сквозь зубы, с недовольным лицом. С самого начала она его не принимала, сколько бы он ни старался. За первые недели он починил в квартире всё — от протекающего крана до балконной двери, которая не закрывалась годами. А в ответ — холод и колкости.
— Ты у меня, парень, не прописываешься! — как-то выдавила она. Дима лишь спокойно ответил: — Я и не прошу.
Он терпел. Каждый день. Но я видела, как это его гнобит. А потом я забеременела… И случилось то, чего мы боялись.
— Совсем рехнулась?! Рожать от этого деревенщины?! Да я его в своём доме терпеть не могу! — орала мать.
Дима услышал. Молча собрал вещи. Подошёл ко мне и сказал:
— Либо ты идёшь со мной. Либо я ухожу один. Но под одной крышей с твоей матерью я больше не живу.
Я ушла. Переехали с ним в его крохотную комнату в общаге. Родился сын. Было трудно. Но ни разу не пожалела. Дима работал, учился, подрабатывал. Через два года купили нашу первую однушку. Потом — двушку. Сейчас живём в большой трёшке. Дима — инженер на серьёзном заводе, получает хорошие деньги. И всё равно берёт подручные заказы — руки золотые, клиенты сами его находят.
Но с тех пор, как мы ушли, Дима ни разу не переступил порог маминой квартиры. Не пришёл ни на один праздник, даже случайно не встретился. Он твёрдо сказал:
— Я её видеть не хочу. Помочь деньгами — пожалуйста. Оплачу что угодно. Но общения не будет. Пусть не ждёт.
Мама долго не понимала. Да и сейчас, спустя годы, продолжает дуться:
— Так и будешь на поводу у мужа? А если мне плохо станет? Если сама не справлюсь? Ты меня тоже бросишь?
Я вернулась домой и тихо спросила Димку:
— А вдруг… правда не сможет одна?
Он не раздумывал:
— Возьмём сиделку. Ты будешь её навещать. Всё будет достойно, но её в нашей жизни больше не будет. Мой предел — твой порог.
Я задумалась. И поняла — он прав. Он не обязан прощать того, кто его унижал. Не обязан ей ничего чинить, если она презирала его за то, что он сантехник. Он вырос. Стал другим. А она — нет.
Недавно она снова звонила. Кричала, что в ванной течёт, а я даже не попросила Димку посмотреть.
— Мам, — спокойно ответила я, — Дима перевёл тебе деньги. Вызови любого мастера.
Она бросила трубку. Обиделась. Но я не жалею.
Иногда думаю, что тогда, в ту ночь, когда я ушла с Димой в общагу, я сделала главный выбор. Выбрала семью. Выбрала человека, который не предал. Который вытянул нас с сыном, построил всё с нуля и не дал себе сломаться. И я больше никому не позволю его ломать.
Пусть мама обижается. У неё был шанс. Но она его не захотела.
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Every time he’d marvel, “Where have you been all my life, Ksenia? I’ve searched half my life for you…” Meanwhile, Katya decided to seek vengeance—all men now fair game. Beautiful, she turned heads everywhere. She had a fling with her boss, entranced him. “Katya, marry me. I’ll make you rich. You’ll be treated like a queen.” “No thanks, Dmitri—I’ve had enough marriages… Let’s go to the seaside instead. I want Sonia to get some fresh air,” Katya winked. “Alright, my dear…” Sasha was simpler—helped around the flat, did her renovations, but never proposed—he was already married. Katya strung both along—no love, just distraction from her misery. She still yearned for Ilya, saw him in dreams, woke up in useless tears. Couldn’t let go of those memories. “How do you un-weld someone from your life? What did I do wrong? I was loyal, caring—never argued…” …Years went by. Katya’s life was split between Dmitri’s tender invites, Sasha’s handyman help. …Sonia was twenty when she decided to visit her father. Bought a train ticket, wondered how to address “the other woman.” Arrived in a new city. …Rang the bell. “You must be Sophia,” an interesting woman opened the door. “Mum is much prettier…” Sonia thought. “Ksenia, right?” Sonia guessed. “Yes, come in. Your dad’s not home but will be soon,” Ksenia led her to the kitchen. “How are you? How’s your mum?” Ksenia fussed, “Tea, coffee?” “Ksenia, how did you manage to steal my dad away? He loved my mum—I know that for sure,” Sonia looked her straight in the eye. “Sophia, life’s unpredictable. Love has no guarantees. Sometimes passion sweeps in and one meeting changes everything. Fate intervenes. Sometimes, you just have to change partners in the dance. It can’t be explained,” Ksenia slumped into a chair. “But can’t you just stop? Think of your duty to family…” Sonia couldn’t grasp Ksenia’s reasoning, glaring at the woman she loathed. “You can’t, child,” Ksenia replied simply. “Thank you for your honesty,” Sonia refused the coffee. “Sophia, want some cheeky advice? A man is like a postage stamp—the more you spit on him, the better he sticks. And in general, you need to be steel one day, velvet the next… By the way, your dad and I had a big row.” “Thanks for the tip. Should I wait for Dad?” Sonia asked anxiously. “I’m not sure. He’s been living in a hotel this week. Here’s the address,” Ksenia scribbled it on a scrap of paper. Sonia was relieved—now she could talk to her dad alone. “Goodbye, thanks for the coffee,” she left quickly. She found the hotel, knocked on his door. Ilya was happy—if a bit embarrassed—to see his daughter. “I was planning on returning today—after the row and all…” “That’s your business, Dad. 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